10 Reasons Why You Should Have Sex With Your Spouse Regularly
I just came across some few guidelines from a marriage counselor, and he said that many couples have difficulties in bed. In fact, it is one of the most common reasons couples come for counseling. Unfortunately, many fight over sex without realizing the great things he can do for their relationship (and for you personally). There are many good reasons to have sex frequently. Here are ten:
1. Sex is a metaphor for the rest of your relationship
When a couple have a good relationship they generally also have a good sex life. And the reverse is also true. That is, if you do not understand each other in this particular, fights appear in your relationship.
Sex and relationships are inseparably linked. So, being in the room together as often as possible will create links that connect them out of the room more often as well.
2. It’s better than using the internet
Think of all the time you spend surfing on Facebook at night. Of course, it’s good to talk to old friends and see what everyone else is doing.
But, if you think about it, you will realize that no one is more important than your spouse. And while you may watch silly videos of pets or cute videos of other people’s kids, you can not connect emotionally on Facebook as much as you can with your partner in the room.
3. It’s good for your health
It is true. Several studies show that sex brings many health benefits. For example, sex raises your heart rate, burns calories, helps you sleep better and is still associated with decreased stress.
Not to mention that it promotes a stronger immune system and can even help you live longer.
4. Sex brings the couple together
Sex is the only thing that defines you and your spouse as more than roommates. And it’s the only thing you share exclusively with him and no one else. Therefore, sex is a unique way for you to express love, romance and passion for each other in a way that you could not express anywhere (or with anyone else).
5. It’s like going on a date – at home
If you have kids, you know how hard it is to get out. You need to find a babysitter, find a place to go that you enjoy and then be back in time to take the nanny home or have her take the last bus on time and safely.
And even when you leave, there is no guarantee that you will like the movie or the restaurant you go with your spouse. Having sex often is like going to a place that you are sure you will like. And you do not even have to leave the comfort of your own home.
Also, because you do not have to leave the house, you can do this as many times as you want – without having to spend with babysitting, movie, restaurant or transportation.
6. Commits the communication
Besides being a lot of fun, sex is an exercise in communication. During sex, you are regularly communicating with your partner about what you like about what you do not like or whatever you do. There is nothing more intimate and vulnerable than the communication you are having inside the room. And the benefits this has outside the room are immense.
7. It’s fun
Of course, it can be fun watching one of your favorite shows before you go to bed. But making love to your spouse is a lot more fun.
8. You get an orgasm
During orgasm, a neurotransmitter called oxytocin is released by certain parts of your brain. And scientists are discovering that this hormone is one of the key ingredients for humans to increase love, confidence, affective bonds and reduce fear. It is also one reason why orgasms are so pleasurable.
9. Helps you to grow as a person
In a healthy intimate relationship, you have to be comfortable with yourself. If you are embarrassed by your appearance or are embarrassed to say what you want, the room can help you overcome those difficulties.
10. Sex helps you feel more like a man/woman
As a woman, it is difficult to feel feminine when a good part of your day is spent cleaning mellitus and making sure the toothpaste has been taken from the mirrors.
And as a man, it’s hard to feel masculine when you are being a driver and a servant to your children. Sex helps you to feel yourself again. It reminds you of your femininity and masculinity. And remember their unique relationship with each other.
So have the right type of sex today and make your partner go waoo about you.
