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10 Terrible Things a Good Man Would Never Do To You

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10 Terrible Things a Good Man Would Never Do To You

10 Terrible Things a Good Man Would Never Do To You

There are certain traits of men which could actually help you identify whether they are good in nature and most importantly, will be good with you in the long run or not. The following are some terrible things which your man must never do if he is a real gentleman.

  1. Cheat on You

Cheating is a choice, not a mistake. A good guy doesn’t put himself in a situation where he’s being disloyal to his girl, period. If a girl sends him a DM on social media, he tells her he’s not interested (or just ignores and blocks). When a girl flirts with him at the club when he’s with his buddies, he tells her he’s with someone. He doesn’t do shady things when no one’s around because he’s happy with you.

  1. A good man will never invade your privacy

In a healthy relationship, there is no need to hide anything. Texts, emails, Facebook messages, whatever. But that doesn’t mean your partner has the right to snoop through them if you happen to leave your phone around or your computer open. Someone who does this is showing a massive insecurity on their part and it is likely projecting their own infidelities and issues onto you.

  1. Hide His True Self from You

A good guy won’t pretend to be a good person to win you over only to let his true colors show once he has you. A good guy will tell you about his past and his future plans. He’ll introduce you to his family and friends. He’ll open up to you because he wants you to see him for who he is. He’ll keep you by his side during his hard times and you’ll see him weak and in need. He does all that because he wants you to stay for who he is, not for a picture-perfect image of him.

  1. A good man will never discourage you

A sign of a person’s confidence in themselves is how they help to support the ambition of others. A good man will always be willing to help and support those around him and will never be discouraging or insulting.

  1. Hurt You in Any Way

At least not on purpose. If he ever upsets you, he apologizes, hears you out, and makes it up to you. He admits when he’s wrong and he corrects his mistakes. He won’t make you cry over a text or during a heated fight, he’ll make you cry over how sweet and caring he is. A good guy makes you feel confident about your connection. He doesn’t go out of his way to make you jealous or feel like you aren’t good enough for him.

  1. A good man will recognize your value; he will not make you feel the need to prove it to him

The minute you feel that you have to prove your worth to the person you’re with is the minute you’ll know to walk away. A man or woman should be with you because they value and appreciate who you are, not what you do or how well you sell yourself to them.

  1. Break His Promises

When a good guy gives you his word, he sticks to it. You’ll notice this in the little things first. When he tells you he’ll call at 8 p.m., he does. He doesn’t change his plans with you last minute. A good guy’s promises are his way of showing his commitment to you. If he has a change of heart about something you agreed on, he lets you know immediately. He never leads you on. He doesn’t tell you what you wanna hear to avoid talking about things or making decisions.

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  1. A good man will never disrespect you

Easy, simple, basic – but often overlooked. A good man will show respect to everyone around him. He will not be condescending or put anyone down, regardless of intelligence level or professional position.


If he doesn’t respect the most important female figure in his life, then how is he going to respect any woman who walks into it? A good guy has a healthy and loving relationship with his mother. She’s his role model, idol, and best friend. A good guy makes his mother a priority in his life. The way he treats his mother is a reflection of how he will treat you.


A good guy won’t be friends with guys who don’t resemble his goodness. He’s friends with guys who are just like him. He spends his time with guys who share his interests and value system. If a good guy ever finds a friend of his not being loyal, respectful, or committed, he removes him from his life. He doesn’t find amusement in hanging out with bad guys.


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