12 Amazing Tricks to Attract Your Husband
Having a difficult time getting your husband’s attention? Sometimes he simply needs a boost. A boost to his ego so he will believe you want him, physically as well as emotionally. Sometimes he needs some extra effort on your part to be enticed and drawn toward you.
Just as there is a myriad of reasons he might seem to have lost interest in you, there is also a myriad of ways to recapture his interest and make him want to pursue you again.
If your soul mate is becoming more of a roommate and you want it to change, then read on. We tell you how to turn up the heat, reach your ‘sexpectation’, and most importantly how to attract your husband. Here are the secret codes.
- Show the gorgeous side of you
Maintain basic hygiene, comb your hair, smell nice and wear fitted clothes. Dressing well will always have a positive impact. Wear a dress that your husband likes, and brush up on your appearance. Wearing clothes that compliment your figure not only makes you attractive but also boosts your self-confidence.
Get regular haircuts, go for pedicure and manicure, get your arms and legs waxed and have a facial done. Spend some money on good perfume.
- Be a mystery
Men still love a challenge; just don’t make it too complicated. Does your husband know everything there is to know about you? If so, develop a new skill or idea or come up with a secret he’s dying to discover. When you become a mystery to your husband there are things about you that he still wants to know, things you’re thinking that he’d like for you to divulge, secrets in your soul that he’ll be challenged to draw out. You don’t give him a chance if you tell him everything. Write him an anonymous note from a “secret admirer” and put it somewhere you couldn’t have and don’t reveal it was from you. Offer to meet him somewhere and show up in a new dress and hairstyle. Be mysterious, in some ways. Be to him a treasure chest full of secrets he’s dying to unlock!
- Extend your vowels
One of the fastest ways to be more attractive to your man, at the moment, is to extend your vowels when you’re speaking.
If you’re constantly rushing through your sentences and speaking to him like you’re in a boardroom, then eventually he’s going to start seeing you as more of a work colleague than a lover.
But if you get out of your head, drop into your body, and slow down the pacing with which you speak, this will draw him more deeply to you in an instant.
Believe me… there’s a HUGE difference in how men receive, “You look nice”, and “Baaaabyyy…. you look so haaandsommme!” And, it should go without saying, but don’t extend them to a comical/ridiculous degree. Just slow your speech down a bit compared to whatever your authentic, natural pace would be otherwise.
Sound too good to be true? Try it out. Don’t be surprised if he pounces on you and gives you all of the physical affection you could handle.
- Wear sexy Lingerie, it will attract your husband sexually
Sex is a product that can be marketed. Yes, don’t be shocked. It’s not about the package; it’s how it has been packaged!
We all have been conditioned that slim is sexy, but actually, comfort and confidence in your body shape are sexier. Ask a few friends, which colour looks best on you so, no matter your body size or shape, there is lingerie out there that will bring out the sexy in you, that will attract your husband sexually.
- Update your knowledge
Men like women who are well-read. They prefer women who know what is happening in the world. An intellectual wife, who can hold a discussion and have her viewpoint on various topics, will keep her husband engaged in a healthy conversation. Be versatile with the Online media, read the newspaper and novels.
- Cultivate your relationship with Christ
What makes you truly attractive, and one worth pursuing? The beauty of Christ in you. When you have an intimate devotional life with Christ and are controlled by His Spirit, your life will produce the fruits of His Spirit – love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). What man doesn’t want to chase after a woman who is truly joyful, peaceful, patient, kind, good, faithful, gentle, and – they love this one the best – self-controlled!
- Compliment him
While most men aren’t predominantly driven by praise, they still very much appreciate a genuine compliment from their lover once in a while.
There are two things you’ll want to compliment the most (as long as these things are actually true for you).
First, you’ll want to compliment things that you perceive as being most central to his identity. Second, you’ll want to compliment things that you believe he feels the least confident about.
- Change your Wardrobe
Immediately change your wardrobe if your husband is not attracted to you physically. Start by making it sexier and attractive. You will be suprised at the effect this has on your kinship with your spouse.
- Be independent
Do not depend on him, be it financially or otherwise. A strong independent woman is surely attractive. When it comes to money, men really do not care how much you earn, but they do not want you to be a financial drain on them (well most men).
For your daily tasks as well, avoid seeking help for him. While it is good to share responsibilities, not asking for help might tempt him to help you.
- Exude confidence
He once found it attractive in you. He still does. So, regardless of how you might feel about your weight, body shape, “big knees,” “small chest,” cellulite, veins, or whatever, get over it. He has. Honestly, he doesn’t see all the body flaws you think are so very obvious. Men tend to not analyze or critique our bodies nearly as much as we do. When you are confident in your speech, your walk, your relationship with him, and your role as his wife that, too, is attractive.
- Give him your full trust more often
If you tend to second guess your man endlessly (in your head or out loud), he will inevitably feel this and slowly grow to resent you. The masculine wants to be trusted deeply.
Instead of questioning his every decision, give your partner the benefit of the doubt. Make generous assumptions about how he moves through his life. But only if you truly trust the man you are with.
- Wear your apron for your man
The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Cooking is an admirable quality. Your husband will feel special when you cook him his favorite meal. You need not be a great cook, but the fact that you made an effort to cook something, especially for him, matters. Also, cooking together is an awesome way to rekindle your bond. It is an affair with food.