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12 unexpected signs that he will one day want to control you

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12 unexpected signs that he will one day want to control you
It is not always possible to realize before you are already committed or married, that your half-brother is a controlling person. The controller is abusive and how any abuser should be avoided because they do not change – unless they become aware and want to change.

So if you are in a relationship and feel there is something wrong in this regard, be aware of the signs that he will one day want to control you.

1. Threats or threats
When you do not do what he wants or disagree with something he says, he “sulks” or does things to show his dissatisfaction, such as breaking something, knocking, screaming or threatening.

2. Manipulation through guilt
He gets you to do what he wants by instilling feelings of guilt. Some phrases might be: “you do not like me anymore” or “if you liked me, you would do what I asked you to do”, “look what you make me do”, or, “you drive me crazy”, “you me Makes you lose control”. Everything is always your fault.

3. Nothing is good enough
He is never grateful enough for the things you do for him. The goal is to make her feel ever in debt to him and in the obligation to do more and more to please him, satisfy him and you end up as a servant of him.

4. You always have your own way or know what is right. Ever!
To do whatever it is always has to be the way it is. If you insist on doing it your way, he shrugs, making his way look silly, or saying that if it does not work, it’s not his fault.

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For the manipulator, to make you doubt yourself, your abilities, abilities, and choices is a way to take away your autonomy and make it dependent on your opinions, suggestions, and “wisdom.”

5. Conditional Love
You have to gain the privilege of being loved by the controller. Phrases such as “I like you better when …” or “If you lose a few pounds, I will feel even more attracted to you.”

There is also “valuation” through the advantages you can bring to it: “If you do not mind making at least one food for us, I do not know what I’m getting in that relationship.”

6. It is invasive
He feels in the right to rummage through his social life, his phone, computer and if you complains he wants to know what you are hiding. It appears without warning. He does not respect his “no” and insists. Whether it’s to go out, stay at home, try drugs or alcohol, have sex. Anyway, its “no” to it sounds like a challenge.

7. Excess of jealousy
This is obvious. You are always behind situations to betray you or everyone is always watching you. Even her friends are jealous. In fact, your intention is to isolate it and make it dependent on your company.

9. It lets you know you have options
He always tells you that the girl is giving soft, that the ex is calling, anyway, he lets you know what options you do not want. It is a way to make your attention and desires to please be all directed to him or he will find another that does.

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Do not be fooled, he does not do it because he loves you. In fact, he loves the mirror and wants you to look like a stray puppy around him.

10. Control of your physical space
Where did you go? With whom? Did what? Why was it? Why did not you tell me you were going? Did not want me to go with you? Wanted to be alone to do what? These are the typical questions of a manipulator. He wants total control of his comings and goings.

11. He has passive-aggressive behavior
“I was just joking” or “why are you so upset?”. He uses sarcasm to express his hostility and when you are offended, one of the two sentences is said. He takes pleasure in provoking you until you lose your temper and then questions your “exaggerated” reaction in his opinion.

12. He lies
When you ask a direct question about your intentions does it stutter? Avoid the subject or respond quickly? If you have to keep insisting, asking, peering to know the truth about some subject, it means that he does not want to tell the truth and who mind to get or not to lose advantages is not good company and never will be. Get out.

Article by Akinbode Toluleke check up Twitter on taakinbode

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