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12 Unique Ways To Give Attention To Your Husband

by Bisi Adewale
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12 Unique Ways To Give Attention To Your Husband

It is not sufficient to crave your husband’s attention. You have to give him attention first of all.

Some women withhold their attention in a bid to ‘punish’ their husbands for denying them love; they think this will make the man “come to his senses”, crawling back to them, begging for their feet. This is wrong! Men are not made to live like that. You can’t win a man by fighting him. You can’t withhold attention to get attention; it does not work like that. TO GET YOUR HUSBAND’S ATTENTION, YOU MUST GIVE HIM YOUR ATTENTION.


Work To Do:


  • Listen to him when he talks. Your husband wants you to listen attentively to him when he talks. He wants you to listen the way a good student will listen to the teacher. He doesn’t want you to be distracted when he is talking to you, especially when he is telling you about his vision, plans, job, exploits, etc. If you fail to do this, he will lose interest in talking to you and look for somebody who will listen to him. Unfortunately, that person can be a strange woman.
  • Eye contact. Don’t just listen to him, make eye contact with him and let him know you are interested.
  • React to what he is saying. Shake your head, smile, frown, shout, hail him, praise, and add something as the case may be. This will make him happy and encourage him to talk to you the more and give you his attention.
  • Enter into his world. You can’t get your husband if you fail to reason like a man. You must allow what thrills him thrill you. You may wonder what thrills him about football. That is a man for you, enter into his world!
  • Attend to him at the table. Don’t just serve his food and go away. Eat with him, or stay with him as he eats his food. Give him your attention at the dining table.
  • Give him domestic solution. Attend to his needs at home, make sure the home is conducive for him. Make water and food ready and keep the house clean and sparkling.
  • Put him ahead of your job and children.  Make him on top of your priority. Love him more than you love your children and let him know you do.
  • Create time to be with him. If the demands of your job and motherhood do not allow you to spend time with him, that will be too dangerous for your marriage. Deliberately create time to be with him; avoid going out every weekend when he is at home. Let the children go to bed just to be with him.
  • Enter into his ‘career world’. Don’t just get married to him; get married to his job also. Get to know more about his job. Don’t ever behave like an amateur in your husband profession.
  • Go out with him if he wants it. Don’t ever avoid going out with him. If he is proud enough to demand to take you out, be happy about it. Find someone to stay with your children and enjoy your time alone with your husband.
  • Take good care of your outlook. When you strive to look good, you are attending to your husband. You are reaching out to him. Don’t be careless about the way you dress, be wise!
  • Give him attention in the bedroom. Satisfy his sexual longing. Don’t give him room to look for sex elsewhere. I advise you to read our books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife, to get deep teaching about sex in marriage.



Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, www.familybooster.com, facebook.com/Pastorbisiadewale  

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