13 WORKABLE WAYS TO WIN YOUR HUSBAND
-By Yomi AdewaleSome wives have concern in getting their husbands’ attention, some have used all ‘women’s weapon to achieve this in a very long time but could not, some used begging, nagging, fighting, etc as means of wining their husbands yet no meaningful and sustainable results.
Here are practicable and workable ways a woman can win her husband and sustain the relationship.LOVE HIM TRULYTo get to the heart of your husband, he must be convinced you love him, the love must be consciously expressed, demonstrated and relayed openly and secretly. The scripture encourages every wife to demonstrate genuine love even when it is difficult.Titus 2:3-4 KJV The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;  That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,LOVE HIS JOBMen channel their energy to their work and any woman who wants to constitute hindrance to the progress of her husband career would have herself to blame. Many men derive joy in their job because there is dignity in labour. I encourage every wife to genuinely and passionately love her husband’s job because it would bring closeness between her and the husband. You can’t hate his job and you will have his mind with you.ACCEPT AND LOVE HIS FAMILYNo single family is perfect, yours have flaws too.You need to create this in your heart towards your in -laws because human weaknesses will definitely show up at different times in relationships, learn to forgive and move on. The way to achieve this is to accept your husband’s family and show them love. Just the way you love and accept your family members despite their shortcomings, apply same to your in laws. Your husband’s siblings both sisters and brothers,his father and mother and other relatives must be loved and accepted.LOVE HIS MUMThe principal in-law is the mother- in law,.Most in-laws issues revolve round her, so you need wisdom to handle your mother in-law by turning her to your mother In-love, she may not be a perfect picture of what is expected of a mother but she definitely has some good qualities you need to cherish and appreciate in her. Love her to the extent that her son who is your husband will be convinced that a peaceful and loving relationship exist between you and his mother.ACCEPT HIS FRIENDSIt is not all friends of your husband that you get along with in the real sense of it, some you may not like their attitude and intention but there are better ways to handle such people.Apply wisdom, when your husband is having a strong and long term relationship with someone, you need to show some kind of acceptance.If there is any problem and concern with the friend, it should be discussed and prayed about.LOVE HIS HOBBYYou need to intentionally show interest in your husband’s hobby to promote bonding between the two of you. He may enjoy certain activities like football, discussing current affairs, talking with high level of sense and issues around politics and economics, while women folks could focus on fashion, children and entertainments matters. You could see a huge gap you need to work on here, show interest in what interest your husband and you will surely win his confidence .SUPPORT HIM IN ALL AREAS ESPECIALLY IN THE AREA OF FINANCEWhen couples are united financially, where an individual could reach in ten years, they could achieve it within ten months .Husbands and wife should not compete but complement each other. You need not oppress your husband because God has blessed you with a good career, business or fortune. For the good of your family, support your husbandBE A GREAT COOKThe road to the heart of a man is through the kitchen door, be a good cook and you will walk directly into the heart of your husband unhindered. Learn kitchen strategy and healthy living skill, you will thank God for it.TALK RIGHTLYCommunication skill is essential for living, you need to learn the act of talking and respecting a man especially your husband. Even when you are hurting, there must be courtesy. When in the public ,there must be respect in your communication style. Every man tends to appreciate and cherish the wife who talks rightBE WISEWisdom is the principal thing, therefore get wisdom.You need full application of wisdom in handling your own type of husband, men and women generally are never the same.There may be good and useful general information to note but there must be specific wisdom requires to handle and manage your own husband and family in order to achieve successDEMONSTRATE GOOD AND GODLY CHARACTERCharacter is key to winning your husband. Learn calmness, kindness, humility and submissiveness. Your character is the demonstration of what is inside of you, imbibe these great virtues, you will become a pleasant person to be with.Many husbands aren’t comfortable staying at home because of issues of negative and bad character of their wives, you need godly and good character to handle the most so called difficult husband.BE A GOOD DRESSERNo man can resist a stunning lady who knows how to present and dress herself well. You need to learn better way of packaging and presenting yourself to your own husband, you are actually meant to dress for him not just for the party, not to oppress your friends but to make God and your husband happy. Please ,dress wellBE TERRIFIC IN THE BEDROOMBedroom is like a boardroom in a marriage.Many important decisions and actions take place in our bedrooms, never be inefficient and ineffective in your home.Non-performance in the room will make your marriage dry and drab. If you really want to create an uncommon intimacy with your husband, satisfy his bedroom desire and fantasies, he will not be a prey to any strange woman outside your home.