17 THINGS SUCCESSFUL COUPLES ARE DOING RIGHT
Many people do see happy couples and envy them, they do think they are just lucky to be married to angels, “how I wish I am that fortunate” they do think within themselves, the truth is nobody is lucky in marriage, just the way you can’t just be lucky to know how to fly a plane by accident. To be a success in marriage is not by accident and it can not come by wishful thinking, sorry it won’t come by you just praying and fasting, No, there are things to do, battles to fight and win. You may look at some joyful couples and envy them and wish to have their kind of marriage, but the truth is if you must have their kind of marriage you must learn to do what they are doing and even do it more than them.
I will be showing you here 17 Things successful people are fond of doing that makes their homes what they are, if you must have a marriage without tears then you need to learn from them and even copy them.
1: THEY PUT GOD FIRST
Couples in a successful marriage knows that except God builds the house they labour in vain that builds it, so they put God first in all they do, they make God the center of their union. You will do well to copy them so that you can get the results they are getting.
2: THEY ARE SACRIFICING
Couples who are successful in marriages make lots of sacrifices for each other, they fall back backwards to cover each other and help each other to fulfil in life.
3: THEY FORGIVE EACH OTHER EASILY
Ruth Graham said, “A happy marriage is the union of two forgivers.” Successful couples must have seen this golden quote, they follow it to the letter, they are forgiven in nature.
4: THEY BUILD TRUST
Trust is not free, it is not a cherry fruit that can easily fall on your laps, it has to be built and successful couples know this. They do everything to build trust in their marriage by being trustworthy, honest and open.
5: THEY KEPT DATING EACH OTHER
Dating your spouse must be paramount in your heart if you want a great marriage, this is the fact all couples in great marriages are aware of and they don’t joke with their dates.
6: THEY DISCUSS
Wise couples know that no marriage can be successful except couples discuss. They don’t just talk but they discuss wholeheartedly. They don’t just open their mouths, they also open their hearts to each other to produce effective communication.
7: THEY LISTENED
They don’t only talk but they take turn to listen to each other with rapt attention. You see, listening to your spouse is one of the best gifts you can give to your marriage. Wise couples are listeners.
8: THEY APOLOGIZED
The ability to say “I am sorry” is a great asset for building a strong and enduring relationship and knows this quite well and they use this weapon to fight conflicts in their marriages.
9: THEY GOT HELP WHEN THEY GOT STUCK
These couples are humble enough to get help when they get stuck, they know that marriage can enter stormy waters a-times, so they are smart enough to get help in the right quarters not among friends and family members.
10: THEY MADE TIME FOR EACH OTHER
They create time to be together, they value each other so much that, they deliberately caresses time to connect, they are not too busy to be lovers.
11: THEY LEARNED HOW TO COMMUNICATE BETTER
They continue to learn how to talk and listen better, they are lifetime students of communication.
12: THEY WORKED ON THEIR ATTITUDE
Attitudes determine destiny so say the popular axiom. Successful couples are well mannered and are people of great attitude.
13: THEY RECONCILED
They are quick to reconcile when they have a misunderstanding or conflict, they do not allow it to longer.
14: THEY NORMALIZED
They don’t only reconcile they normalized, they get back to their old relationship pre-conflict state of their marriage.
15: THEY CARED ABOUT THEIR MARRIAGE MORE THAN THEIR PRIDE OR EGO
Most people in bad marriages cares more about their ego more than their marriages. But couples in successful marriages are known to let go of their ego to let marriage be in a great state and love in great taste.
16: THEY ROMANCE
The marriage of successful couples are not just peaceful, they are romantic. Lots of couples are only peaceful in their marriages, they don’t connect. But if you want a great marriage then you must deliberately connect.
17: THEY HAVE TANTALIZING SEX LIFE
They don’t just have tantalizing sex but tantalizing sex life. They are known to have bed breaking sex sessions regularly in their marriages. That is why they are successful couples.
By Bisi Adewale
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