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17 Unacceptable excuses wife gives to avoid sex with their husband

by Gideon Dosu
17 Unacceptable excuses wife gives to avoid sex with their husband
17 Unacceptable excuses wife gives to avoid sex with their husband
Dosu Gideon
 17 Unacceptable excuses wife gives to avoid sex with their husband
Sex is vital to the success of any marriage that is why it is the only thing that you cannot delegate to anybody to help you to do to your spouse. 17 Unacceptable excuses wife gives to avoid sex with their husband
 
God purposely put sex at the center of marriage and it is vital to the success of every marriage. One of the reasons why sex is very important and peculiar is that it is a duty a wife cannot delegate at home.
Your husband may decide to eat at the restaurant, at work, or take his clothes to the laundry but when it comes to sex no one can legally do it with your husband. So as a wife you need to beware of flimsy excuses you give to avoid sex with your husband.
Here Are Some of the Unacceptable excuses:
1.       Am still breastfeeding: Breastfeeding should not be allowed to affect your sex life with your husband. Medically sex can take place within three and six months after birth. What is required is to allow time for the cervix to close, postpartum bleeding to stop, and any tears or repaired lacerations to heal. The other important timeline is your own. Some women feel ready to resume sex within a few weeks of giving birth, while others need a few months.
Some women do say the child will be sucking the father’s spermatozoa but that is not true because it has no direct relationship with breastfeeding
2.       Am praying: Some wives are too spiritual when it comes to sex, they will always pretend to be praying whenever they notice advancement from their husband.
3.       Am Fasting: You shouldn’t deprive your husband sex because you are fasting, as long as your fasting is not a marathon. Immediately you break your fast sex is permitted to take place. Most people break their fast in the evening so sex can take place before 12mid night
4.       Am sick: We have seen wives that pretend to be sick every night just to abscond from sex, this singular act can destroy your marriage. No man in his right sense will enforce sex with his wife when he actually knows that she is not feeling too well but when it becomes a routine it can be very dangerous.
5.       Not in the mood: You don’t have to be in the mood before you can allow your husband to sleep with you. Sex is one of the obligations to your husband for the sustainability of your marriage. It is a ministry of purification to make your husband pure.
6.       I am not happy: Some wives will only permit sex with their husband when they are happy. If you only allow that to be daily occurrence in your marriage it will definitely ruin it
7.        You didn’t buy gifts for me: Don’t wait for your husband to buy gifts for you before you allow him to sleep with him. Sex is your duty not only for pleasure.
8.       Bring up issues: Time for sex is not the appropriate time to start bringing up issues like the school fees yet unpaid, the house rent and other inappropriate discussions. All these will affect the moral of the man
9.       I came home late: If you have the kind of job that normally causes you to come home late you need to look how to go around it. Your husband may be enduring it but it will never good for the health of your marriage
10.   My Job is too demanding: Just like the point above, you need to apply wisdom so your job won’t affect your sex life.
11.   I am only the one doing the house chores:  although house chores and kitchen work is not labeled for women only. But if your husband fails to support you either in the kitchen or doing the house chores that doesn’t mean you should retaliate by depriving him of sleeping with you. Doing this will aggravate the issues instead of that you look for appropriate time and discuss it.
12.   I want to go out for a visit: It is not the appropriate time you thought of going for visit when you notice any advancement from your husband
13.   It Is Raining: Some wives said when they sleep with their husband during the raining season the unborn baby may have pneumonia. Tell me when it is the best time to have it than when it is raining.
14.   The sun is shining there will be heat. some concluded if you have sex with your husband and eventually become pregnant you may give birth to an albino
15.   It’s on Sunday the day of the Lord: Some will never allow sex with their husband they normally say Sunday is a holy day such thing must never happen
16.   I just took communion: Taking communion in the church should not be allowed to deprive you of sleeping with your husband, What you want to do is not sinful it is God that instituted marriage and purposely put sex in the middle of the marriage
17.   Just to punish your husband; Sex should never be used as a weapon but for pleasure within the marriage
17 Unacceptable excuses wife gives to avoid sex with their husband
17 Unacceptable excuses wife gives to avoid sex with their husband

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