3 lessons that every newly married couple should learn in the first year of marriage
We live in an age where the family is being bombarded constantly, we have never heard of losses of values as we can now hear. The devaluation of marriage has grown more and more.
The concept that children should grow up in structured homes and their parents need to prevail in the bonds of their family has been distorted and erased. Therefore, it is necessary for husband and wife to seek solid marriages to protect the home from these evils.
Couples should care for the family, value the spouse and make fair sacrifices for the children, they also need to honor the marriage vows, so the family will be strengthened and will endure.
Observe 3 lessons that every newly married couple should learn in the first year of marriage:
1. Faith in marriage
Faith in marriage becomes as necessary now as the struggle to maintain its values. Even if you and your spouse are not mature enough to handle the challenges of marriage, still remain married.
There are spouses who have brought wounds from failed marriages, such as divorce from their parents, or even from theirs in which they have been victims, and are still trying again. No matter the size of the break, when a new life begins, the old breaks must be abandoned so that this person has happiness in their new home.
Past mistakes, independent if they are yours or your parents, need to stay in the past and only be visited as lessons and not as armor. Let failures into the past, have faith in the present, have faith in the spouse who is by your side. And, above all, have faith in God to bless your new family and help you to be happy because He knows you deserve it.
2. Ripening
Marriage is one of the most important responsibilities that spouses acquire in life, because of these sacred vows depends largely on the happiness of the husband, the wife and especially the children.
To mature requires abandoning the root of all the evils that lead to incredible couples getting divorced, selfishness. It takes maturity to forget a little of yourself and put family priorities first, providing the comfort and well-being of each member.
Newlyweds should learn at the beginning of the relationship that true love is beyond desires, for it involves commitment, sincerity, and loyalty; when they understand it, they will seek to develop one in the other potential.
3. Patience
Develop patience in the home, it is paramount both for the beginning of the relationship and for the golden wedding. Without her, not even the most sincere couple could last. However, when it comes to life in the home, love grows stronger, respect increases, admiration is exalted, and loyalty strengthened.
Spouses who use the virtue of patience in a relationship tend to develop a secure and resilient love, this love becomes resilient to the ups and downs of life, it also surpasses the distance without being weakened. This love can be tempted, but it is never defeated.
Relationships that have patient couples do not seek to change the spouse in any way but seek ways to perfect together seeking happiness in the home.
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