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3 MASTER KEYS FOR EXCELLENT MARRIAGE

by O. S David

3 MASTER KEYS FOR EXCELLENT MARRIAGE

-Bisi Adewale

And I will give unto thee the keys of the kingdom of heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. (‭Matthew‬ ‭16‬:‭19‬ KJV)
What keys are:
~~ Keys are small metal instrument specially cut to fit into a lock and move its bolt so that the door can be locked or open.
~~ Master keys for excellent marriage: Are the principal things that must be in place in marriage to make it an excellent Marriage.

MASTER KEYS OF MARRIAGE
1) GODLINESS
But godliness with contentment is great gain. (‭1 Timothy‬ ‭6‬:‭6‬ KJV)
— Godliness means living like God, living for God, living in God, living with God, living on God
— Godliness means running away from everything God hate
— God hates Sin and iniquity
— God hates Lying, stealing, Pornography,
Fornication, lesbianism, gay relationship, immoral dressing, lust etc
“For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honor” (‭1 Thessalonians‬ ‭4‬:‭3-4‬ KJV)
~~ If you want to prosper in marriage you must not cover your sins
“He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy”(‭Proverbs‬ ‭28‬:‭13‬ KJV)

2) GOOD BEGINNING
Though thy beginning was small, yet thy latter end should greatly increase. (‭Job‬ ‭8‬:‭7‬ KJV
~~ Success or otherwise of your marriage will depend largely on how you start it.
~~ God started the work of creation well and He ended it well.
“In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth. And the earth was without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. And God said, Let there be light: and there was light.
And God saw everything that he had made, and, behold, it was very good. And the evening and the morning were the sixth day” (‭Genesis‬ ‭1‬:‭1-3, 31‬ KJV)
HOW TO BEGIN WELL
~~ Develop Good mental attitude about:
marriage, Love and opposite sex
~~ Follow Divine Direction
~~ Do a careful Background Check
~~ Pray aggressively and continuously.
~~ Do Character Gauge
~~ test that Love before you go for it
3) ADEQUATE TRAINING
And when Abram heard that his brother was taken captive, he armed his trained servants, born in his own house, three hundred and eighteen, and pursued them unto Dan. (‭Genesis‬ ‭14‬:‭14‬ KJV)
~~ No matter how good your beginning is, to be successful in marriage, you must get adequate training.
~~ Family Training is Turning a Man or woman from his natural tendencies to conform to the standard of God for great family life, by equipping him or her through coordinated activities.
~~ Training makes a soldier
~~ Training  makes a successful marriage
STATISTICS
— Focus on the family Statistics shows that: 80% of couples in US who did premarital training stayed together.
— According to research by the Oklahoma Healthy Marriage Initiative,
“couples are 31% less likely to get divorced if they have premarital training.”
— David and Amy Olson’s book Empowering Couples: (Building on our Strengths) states that “80% of couples that participate in premarital training show higher marital satisfaction.”
These statistics demonstrate the importance of good premarital training.

— Out of all the preparation you do for your wedding, premarital training will have the most significant long-term impact on your relationship.
— The major killer of marriage are not demons but lack of training

TYPE TRAINING IN MARRIAGE

1) Premarital training: Training to have before wedding
** unlearn bad habits&character like Selfishness, Stinginess, unguarded utterances, Laziness, Hot anger, Stubbornness
** Learn good and great habit, attitude and character.
** Learn about Communication,adjustment,temperament,character,Love etc

2) Continuous training: Training you should be having for the rest of your life in marriage. Never think you know it all, Marriage is Dynamic, nobody is a graduate of the School of marriage
Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be yet wiser: teach a just man, and he will increase in learning. (‭Proverbs‬ ‭9‬:‭9‬ KJV)
** continue to learn how to be a better wife not a knife
** Continue to learn how to be a better husband and not hunch back

3) PARENTING TRAINING:
** Learn how to raise Godly Children in this ungodly world
** Learn about raising Children that will not cause you shame
** Learn how not to be an analog Parents raising digital Children
7 PLACES TO GET TRAINING

7 PLACES TO GET TRAINING
1 — Books
2 — Tapes and CD
3 — Godly Films
4 — family Seminars
5 — Online, visit Godly sites. Visit www.bisiadewale.com is a good one
6 — On social Medial: Follow good twitter handles and Facebook pages
7 — Marriage counseling
8 — Marriage Mentoring
9 — Marriage Schools

YOU NEED TRAINING!!!!!!!!!!

 

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