3 Questions You Must Ask Yourself Before Getting Married
Marriage is a serious thing. This is not a decision that should be made overnight, especially if you believe in this relationship.
Marriages are idealized to become a relationship where the couple lives for the rest of their lives together, united, constitute a family and grow through it, learn from each other and overcome together difficulties that may arise.
For all this, a decision of these should be very well analyzed. Undoubtedly, your future spouse will not be perfect, no one is, but there must be love and harmony between you. Only in this way will you be able to go on with a happy and lasting marriage.
So before making this important decision, think about these three questions and find your own answer yourself:
1. What is the main reason you intend to marry him?
Be very honest with yourself. You really love him or are just planning to get married because all your best friends are already getting married or marrying you and you can not be left behind. Does he love you or are you scared that someone else will not come into your life that can treat you as well as he treats you?
2. Can you see your whole life with him?
Think of your future next to your spouse. Can you idealize your future life with him? Think about the plans you have together, the life projects you dreamed of, the problems and difficulties that may arise in creating this new family, and make sure you feel happy and secure in the company of your future husband for the rest of your lives.
3. Do you become better with him?
Some people can simply take from us what is best in our being. Next to them we are happier, more loving, charitable, kind and a person who will spend the rest of his life by his side must be one of these people that at least makes you want to be someone better every day.
If you love him and feel that this is the main reason you want and expect this marriage, that he is the person with whom you want to spend the rest of your days, growing up, improving together, all you have to do is say yes.
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