3 Secrets You Must Never Share With Your Husband
-Oba Samuel
Marriage relationship is a very fragile one, it needs to be handled with utmost care else it will create tension and hit the rocks.
To maintain love, peace and intimacy in marriage, there are secrets you must not share with your husband no matter what. These are classified secrets you should never reveal to your hubby if you really want to keep your marriage.
1 You hate his mother: If you truly value your marriage and you want to stay married, never tell your husband you hate his Mum even if you do. Most men love their mothers passionately because they stayed in their womb for nine months and she is the ‘first girl’ in their live. So, they’ve formed a very good partnership which is beyond physical and no wife can erase that. No matter the evil or excesses in your mother-in-law, pray to win her love and never tell your husband you hate his mother else; he may hate you and start maltreating you.
2.Your sex experience with your boyfriend; Not being a virgin is not a major issue to most men when choosing a life-partner .But after getting married, he does not want to hear the tales about your sexual experience with your boyfriend who deflowered you. Telling him this is not openness but foolishness because men are jealous in nature. Don’t bring avoidable problem into your marriage by telling this graphic experience about your past sexual experience. Now that you are married, let this be part of your past that you must never bring to remembrance again else he may not trust you and when there is no trust, marriage will rust.
- Displeasure about the size Of His Manhood: I read a story of men who were asked after committing a crime if they will prefer their eyes to be pluck out or rendered impotent and all of them without hesitation agreed to loss of sight. The manhood of a man matters to him more than his eyes, and that is why the negative state of it normally affects them seriously. Never make the mistake of telling him that his penis is too small, this will injure him psychologically, make him feel less than a man and this will affect his sex life .Even if it is truly small, program your mind to accept and be satisfied with it. Don’t push him to use penis enlargement drugs that may later have side effects on him. What you need in a man is more than the size of his penis.