3 Things Every Couple Must Manage in Their Environment If Their Marriage Must Be Solid
-By Bisi Adewale
“Be thou diligent to know the state of thy flocks, and look well to thy
herds”. Prov. 27:23
No marriage can dwell in isolation because every marriage must live within an environment which may either help or damage the union. Your environment can have adverse effect on your marriage if not properly
managed. What are these 3 things you must manage in your environment to have a solid marriage? Read further:Your environment involves:
– Your job, career and ministry, be the best you can be in your career and
ministry but don’t surrender your marriage to them. Learn how to strike a
balance. Home front is the real front of your ministry, don’t run your ministry
at the expenses of your marriage. Be dedicated to your career but don’t
place it above your marriage. Career will end, only family will remain.
– Electronics. Computer, television, phones: All these are to help you build
better marriage and not to destroy it. All these electronics are good but you
must not allow them to steal your family time. Don’t get too addicted to
computer or phones to the detriment of your marriage. don’t B.B your
marriage into destruction. “Come, my beloved, let us go forth into the
field; let us lodge in the villages. Let us get up early to the vineyards;
let us see if the vine flourish, whether the tender grape appear, and the
pomegranates bud forth: there will I give thee my loves”. Song 7:11-12
– Newspaper and magazines. Read them to get informed but don’t allow
them to deform your marriage. Don’t let it take your attention from your
spouse.
