3 WAYS TO ADD SPARK TO SEX IN YOUR MARRIAGE
-Bisi Adewale
There are three major ways to add spark to sex in your Marriage. If you know them, you will do well, if you fail to do them I can assure you there will struggle in your bedroom and there may be bedroom battles and frustration.
The following are the ways to add spark to your bedroom in your marriage
1) SELFLESSNESS: Been totally selfless is a great way to build better sex in your marriage. Whole lots of people are self in Marriage bedroom, their only concern is their pleasure and joy, nothing concerns them about their partner or his/her needs, this is a great threat to sexual Fulfillment and satisfaction in marriage. So the key to better sex in your Marriage is a giver, don’t be selfish donate pleasure and be forever satisfied.
2) CREATIVITY: Whole lots of Married couples are not creative in their sex life, they are primitive, stereotype and static, they hardly improve or learn something new, to some any other sexual style apart from the traditional man-on-top, is not okay.
The reason for this still baffles me as this bring boredom to many Marriage beds.
Monogamy is not equal to monotony, therefore be creativity in your bedroom, you don’t need to sleep with any other person to get the fulfillment you need sexually.
3) KNOWLEDGE: The third key to sexual fulfillment in your marriage is Knowledge.
The level of your knowledge will determine the level of your fulfillment. If you know nothing you will give and get mediocre performance in your matrimonial bedroom,but if you improve your knowledge and deal with Myth and prejudices, you will be the best in your bedroom and get your desire result.
HOW TO GET KNOWLEDGE
I will never allow you to get pornography videos or hook up with porn site just to spice your sex life, it is dangerous and it’s always counterproductive and can even end up ruining your life and destroy your marriage.
But you can go in the way of pure knowledge and equip yourself with knowledge that will not hurt your Marriage or destroy your life, this you can do in the following ways:
— SEE A COUNSELOR: Seeing a qualified counselor will help you a great deal to see the area where you are to improve and become better. When seeing a counselor, go with your spouse and make sure both of you are sincere, frank and open with your counselor.
— ATTEND MARRIAGE RENEWAL CONFERENCE: Attending Marriage renewal conferences is said to be a great way to improve Marriage and bring life into rather boring and uninteresting Marriage and bedroom life. Make sure you attend “Couples banquet”,”couples time out”,”couples retreat” “couples night out” or whatever name it’s call, do this twice a year and see your marriage coming alive and your sex life becoming the best.
— READ QUALITY BOOKS: I will also advise you to read quality books on Sex in Marriage. This will equip you better than counseling and marriage summit as it will be able to address areas like foreplay, Pre-bed activities, bedroom roles, Romance, recommended intimacy, sex communication, sex boosters, sex grouping, skill building for the bedroom myth about sex, the act of love making etc.
If you ask me to recommend books in this regard to you, I recommend these two helpful books by
Bisi Adewale
— Sexual fulfillment in Marriage
— Secrets of an irresistible wife
— Secrets of an irresistible Husband
these three books will be of help to you if you can get them, they’ve been of help to me I believe they will help you too. You can download the two books here
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