31 HABITS OF UNSUCCESSFUL PEOPLE
I want to quickly open your eyes to some habits in unsuccessful people,you will need to check your life for any of these and deal with them. If you have them in you they will end up hurting your lives if you don’t halt them,they are:
1) Think know they don’t know it all: Unsuccessful people are full of themselves,cocky and proud. They think they know it all,hence are not ready to learn
2) they think before acting: They do put thinking behind while acting first before they begging to regret it
3) They don’t Fear Change: They fear and resist change,they fight anything and anybody that want to cause change
4) They don’t give Up easily: They give up after one failure,they are too scared to try again.
5) They Raise others who are trying: They won’t do things but criticize others who are doing it
6) They enjoy doing productive things: They do things that adds nothing to them and are always committed to these things.
7) They keep right company: They keep company with people who are also going know where
8) They place great value on time: They waste time,they comes to meetings anytime they like,won’t keep up with appointments
9) They place great value on relationship: they handle relationship foolishly,they move closer to you only if they can use you,they are users they robbers in Relationship.
10) Spends Money wisely: They are very bad in money management,no budget,no savings,no planing.
11) They are accountable: They hate accountability,they are not countable to any one,they do whatever they like and distant themselves to anyone that will make them accountable
12) They have sense of excellence: Unsuccessful people have no sense of excellence. They do things the way they want and deliver it at the time that leases them
13) They plan for tomorrow: Their plans is about today,they have no plan of what tomorrow should be and prepare themselves for it
14) They submit to leadership: They are rebels they fight leaders and constituted authorities.
15) They have mentors: They don’t believe in mentoring. Since they lord in their kingdom and Emperors in their empires
16) They set Goals: Unsuccessful people are known to live without vision or goal,they can say specifically where they will like to be and how they want to get their.
17) They easily share information: They easily horde any information or idea they have. Keeping it to themselves so that others ay not have access to it depriving themselves the privilege of multiplication
18) They don’t live in envy: They envy successful people and hate the rich.
19) They are focused: They easily get distracted to so many things that are not productive
20) They are ready to take the hard way to succeed: Takes the easy way out: They don’t like doing anything that is hard or difficult,they want the easy way out.
21) They help others to succeed: Secretly hope others fail: because of envy they which others that are successful fail like them.
22) They Talk less: They talk more,because they feel they know and ready to teach others.
23) They are good listeners : They don’t listen to others because they have the thought that they always superior idea,hence they miss the opportunity of growing.
24) Blame themselves for their failure: They play the blame game,they pass the buck,they have God,bosses,parents,Government,
23) They don’t keep grudges: They holds grudges against those they believe make them fail
24) They know what they want to be: They don’t have specific purpose in life,they live life as it comes,they allow the tide of life their ship to any harbor it’s desires.
25) They are very focus: absence of focus is the reason why people become unsuccessful,some folks simply lacks focus they can’t stand or stay on one thing for long
26) They keep learning: Unsuccessful believes they have nothing else to learn,they believe they know it all,they soon becomes obsoleted and expires.
27) Have sense of gratitude : They feel the whole world owes them and they suppose to be pamper and takes care off
28) They are ever appreciative: They don’t see reasons to appreciate anybody,they believe they have the right to be given anything that is given to them.
29) Thinks positive ways: They are full of negative feelings and thinking. Full of anger,sadness,envy etc
30) They keep friends only with people like them: They don’t make friends with people that will make them great or better,they keeps friends with people that discusses their failure with them,blaming,cursing and hurting anybody they feel is responsible for their state.
31) Says positive things: They say so many negative things to themselves and people around them
32) Does positive things: They do so many negative things like street fighting,Keeping malice,fighting against authorities etc
33) They talk about idea not about people: yes of the attitude if unsuccessful people is gossip,they gossip about people around them a lot,do you remember the wise saying,”Low people talks about people,great people talks about ideas” this is very true about unsuccessful people.
34) They lift others up: They always try to discourage people from trying new things and great ideas,they come with all discouragement and reasons why it can not be done,since they can’t do it they don’t want anybody to do it and succeed.
35) They are always happy when others succeed: when others succeed they hates it,they envy them,they disparage them,they talk ills of them and try to bring them down by all means.
36) They take responsibility for their lives: They don’t through the mirror to seethe person that brought their misery on them,to them if it succeed they did it,if it fails,someone else must have done it.
37) They have vision that they follow through: They dream of making millions,building their houses,making it in life,but never set goal of doing it or take steps to actualize this,they just dwell in fools paradise
38)They Sleeps less: They have bad attitude to sleep,they sleep too much,they can’t wake up to do this things for themselves,they’ve forgotten the old saying: “He who must see the queen must wake up when his mate are sleeping”
39) They believe in in hard work not in luck: They believe too much in luck,they believe that one day they will be lucky and make it big,so they are waiting for that great day without doing anything,what a crazy wait.
40) They take quick actions:What they should do today they postpone it till tomorrow and another day and yet another day until it is never done or accomplished.
41) They Manage money rightly: Management of Money is one great failure of the unsuccessful,they are the one that borrows money to trow parties. They are the one that gives birth to six,seven children that they can not cater for,they are the one that spend lavishly when thy have little money only to live to regret it.