4 Things that make you think your man does not love you
Every relationship is built on four pillars: Respect, trust, loyalty, and fellowship. These are the foundations that sustain love. Without them, there is no structure that remains secure.
It is impossible for a relationship to work out, even if people are very much in love, when there are no strong pillars like the ones mentioned above, without them everything, however beautiful it may be, collapses.
When a relationship is fueled by strife, intolerance, and violence, it tends to provoke ruptures, it is they that create a series of possibilities for destroying a partner emotionally, as abusive relationships provoke sadness and the inability to believe in happiness alongside the loved one.
These are the great responsible for the worst feeling that can be developed in a relationship, fear, it is the greatest of all evils and has all the power to kill love.
Notice the 4 reasons that lead to the most passionate man to think he does not love:
Usually, the lie starts small and when you least expect or perceive yourself, it becomes a “snowball.” The worst is that it grows very fast, giving the impossibility of being controlled. Any individual who has counted it loses full control under the situation.
Truth will always be the best way, it is the best choice, no matter how hard it is, it is essential to build a healthy and lasting relationship.
Anyone who initiates a relationship with secrets will carry a heavy and lonely burden during the relationship.
Omit intimate details of old relationships because it is a form of respect for yourself and your ex-partner. Sharing these details is not good either for you or for him, however, keeping in touch with your ex is a form of disrespect to your partner.
Neither should the past be allowed to steal happiness from the present. However, one should not pretend that you have never been to try to win the partner, if he chooses to love you, it will be who you are.
Life is “today” with the loved one and not with someone who is already part of the past, if it were good it would not have gone away.
Choose who chose you today and not the one who left you a long time ago. Past is past, leave it where it is.
A relationship that lives in constant fights ends up dissolving, no matter how much your partner loves you and even if you have a beautiful love story, all this will not be enough yet, for the disputes dissolve all the solidity of love.
Mutual love, this is built through family ties, it needs family unity. So remember that you will have to strive to respect, to be kind and loving, not just to your partner, but to your whole family as well.
One of the few things that are possible to presume in the destruction of a relationship is jealousy, for it suffocates, destroys, injures, and defiles. If you are not able to control jealousy, seek expert specialised help before your loved one leaves you for not being able to cope.
Jealousy suffocates the purest love, for jealousy is lacking in trust. No one can be happy when being watched all the time. No one can be happy when he realizes that all his effort at being loyal is useless before the loved one.
Jealousy is a poison that kills love in a slow and painful way, to the point of letting go of pain and despair. A relationship fueled by jealousy will never have peace and happiness.
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