4 Reasons Why You Should Not Make Your Intimacy A Public Affair
As much as we live in society and need this, moments of intimacy are also needed for an emotionally healthy life.
Even because of social networking, this is even more difficult. Sharing a moment of a trivial walk, such as going to the movies or the park, has become commonplace on both social networks and WhatsApp groups.
This sharing can be through photo – the most frequent – or check-in.
In a few clicks, everyone you’re networking with knows where you are or was – that means hundreds or thousands of people.
But is this really necessary? What are the advantages of restricting people’s access to your weekend programs or your meals, other than the people you care about?
1 – Intimacy is sacred
And as such, it can not be wiped out with public photo albums.
Some time ago, there was a tendency (short, still good!) Of couples who posted pictures soon after a sexual relationship, still in bed.
Such an intimate moment, so two, need not be trivialized in this way. If there are spectators, it is very easy to lose control of the situation and your life become a reality show or soap opera as we are accustomed to seeing on TV.
2 – Moments are not lived with intensity
You are living something unforgettable and you worry about posting it on social networks.
It does not even have to be something that involves so much intimacy. From the moment that there is this concern, you do not live the moment with the energy that he and you deserve.
In short, you do not live fully.
3 – You stop living your life
Typically, people who post a lot on social networks seek the approval of others, ie friends and / or followers.
This causes excessive concern with their opinion about everything posted.
Thus, the restaurants you frequent, the places you travel to, and even places like beauty salons, for example, can be chosen because they will generate more likes.
It seems foolish to read this, but these choices can be made even unconsciously. Your intimacy loses space and your own opinion, too.
4 – You become freer
With so many obligations in life, you still get one more: to regularly update social networks.
Have you thought of anything else you could be doing while choosing the best filter for each photo and creating hashtags?
If you do not feel obliged to post at that moment (after all, everything has to be in real time), you have more control over your life and your intimacy,
Generally, what is valued has access to very few people.
Do it with your moments!
Do not let them trivialize and have observers, many of them people who are not even important in your existence.
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