4 Things You Need To Know About Men
Over the time, I have come to realize that men complain about people talking about things people need to know about them. I hear men talk about their feelings and learn a lot from them, especially about the male way of perceiving and acting in the face of conflict. I say that I learn because, even though I can not generalize anything about the human being, the difference from the point of view towards women is notorious.
I learned from them that:
1. Men have greater difficulty with communication in relationship
They can be great communicators, but when it comes to relationships, they usually hang. Understanding feelings and expressing them is extremely complicated for them.
According to this matter, it has been noticed that men, on the other hand, tend to be more task – oriented, talk less and isolate themselves more They feel difficulty understanding nonverbal emotions at the same time that these are manifested These differences Clearly explain why men and women sometimes have difficulty communicating.
2. Men try to ignore relationship conflicts
Fleeing from the problem is a very common male trait. What needs to be clarified is that it is not always disinterested or insensitivity, in the vast majority of cases, they act for lack of ability to deal with this type of situation.
This is the real reason why they do not like to discuss the relationship and dodge as much as they talk about difficulties. One example is glaring: do you want to see a man totally lost? Cry in tears. Men rarely know how to handle it.
3. Men are more rational
Always, in general, rationalizing is a masculine characteristic. They simply do not understand the complexity of women’s emotions, much less know how to act before them. So, they even consider that we are in a storm or that we are very dramatic.
What should be a balance between men and women often turns into totally unnecessary and avoidable fighting if they seek consensus.
4. The level of male infidelity is compatible with that of their insecurity
Many men come to me for the purpose of saving their relationships and regaining their hurt wife. They claim that they love their wives and can not imagine their lives without them, but nevertheless they were unfaithful.
Of course, such a lack of commitment has no justification, but the fact is that, almost always, it has nothing to do with dissatisfaction in the relationship. Many men have a great need to prove to themselves how virulent and capable they are of conquering women, in a totally distorted way, relate this to variety.
Each person, regardless of sex, carries in their luggage unparalleled experiences that compose and define their own paradigms. This article is not intended to draw a line between the sexes, quite the contrary. The idea is to bring up common situations that represent conflicts and that, for the simple knowledge, could be avoided.
Article by Akinbode Toluleke check up Twitter on taakinbode
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