43 WAYS TO BECOME THE BEST HUSBAND EVER
43 WAYS TO BECOME THE BEST HUSBAND EVER
BY – BISI ADEWALE
If you do these 43 things, you will be the BEST husband ever
There is no perfect man; but if you are this rare type, we appreciate you greatly. If you are not, strive to be better.
Your spouse is the most important person in your life, so do your marriage a favor, become the husband your wife is looking for by doing the following:
1. Trust Your wife
Trust your wife with all your heart, don’t give room for doubt
2. Be loyal to your wife
You should have nothing to hide. Give her access to everything in your life and let her know what you do and your plans. There is no passwords or codes she doesn’t know, you never talk ill of her in her absence, then you are great husband
3. know her tastes
Know your wife’s favorite chocolate, the kind of movies she like to watch, her hobbies, her “turn on” and “turn off”
4. Give her some time to herself
Always allow her to have “alone” time, just for herself. Take the children away with you, just let her be for herself for once.
5 Remember her birthday
It will be a crime to forget your wife’s birthday. Don’t just remember, celebrate her on that day.
6. Help her better than anyone else
Let your helping hands go to her more than you do for anyone else. Support her to succeed
7. Laugh at her jokes
even if they are dry,
… even when they are not funny
Even if you are hearing it for the tenth time that day.
8. Believe in her
Just believe her, don’t give room for doubt
Know she will always be honest with you.
9. Laugh with her
Laugh together, laughter is sweeter, if it is a community laugh.
Make her laugh and you have fun together.
10. Value her feelings
Always take into account how she feels about any issue.
11. Make her feel loved
Make her know and feel she is the love of your life.
12. Make her complicated life easier
Give solutions not judgement, seek to avoid conflicts, make her life easier.
13. Help with the house work
wash the dishes and takes care of the Children without her asking.
14. Console her when she is sad
Be with her, console her when she is sad. Don’t like to see her upset and do everything you can to make her feel better.
15. Adore her smile
Celebrate her smile, tell her you enjoy it, tell her you always want her to smile.
16. Treat her like a Baby
There is a baby in every woman. The baby still want to be cuddled, want to be loved, want to be spoon fed. Go ahead, treat her like a baby.
17. Protect her
Protect her from herself, don’t allow her to over labor herself. Protect her from your Family, your Siblings, her Siblings, your Children etc
18. Defend her
Be her defense Minister, never join the enemy and haters to crucify her.
19. Be totally loyal to her
Be totally loyal to her, do not hide this, show it, let the whole world know where your loyalty lies.
20. Cook for her
Get into the kitchen, roll up your sleeve and get the work done, that is how to be the best husband.
21. Help with the Children
Carry the Children. Let her be sleeping while you baby sit, great husbands do that.
22. Put her first
After God, make her the number one in your life, nobody should ever take her place in your life.
23. Brag about her
Brag about her in the public, do not be ashamed to tell the world you love her.
24. Tell her you love her
Verbalize your love, tell her you love her, say it often.
25. Know her needs and meet them
Know her deepest heart desires and meet them
27. Ask: what can I do for you?
Ask her regularly, what can I do for you?
Go ahead and do whatever she says.
28. Be incurably romantic with her.
Marriage is a love affair, be romantic, touch her, kiss her, peck her, don’t allow barbaric culture kill your Marriage.
29. Be playful with her
Play with her, throw pillows, laugh, touch her nose, just be playful
30. Provide for her
You can’t be a great husband when your wife goes round without food and good wears. Provide adequately for her and your Children, that is how to be a great husband
31. Help her growth
Do not accept any self-hate talk she throws at herself. Instead, help her build confidence and encourages her to get up when she discouraged and down. Help her grow up.
32. Never report her to anyone
It’s childish to report your wife around. If there is any issues, sit down and talk about it. If you can’t solve the problem, see a counsellor.
33. Prepare a better future for her
Make preparation for the future, spend money better, invest, build house. Make the future secure for her whether you are there or not.
34. Celebrate her Family
Take good care of her parents, they are your parents by covenant, never fail to care for them, treat them like your biological parents.
35. Prefer her always
Prefer your wife above every other human. Above your siblings, parents, friends and even your children.
36. Spend time with her
Spend time with your wife, away from friends. Off the television, shut down the computer, and put the phone in silence just to be with her. That is how great husband behaves.
37. Be her boy friend
There is always that 16 year old girl in every woman no matter her age, she is still looking for that 17 year old “boy” who will give her the love she craves for, treat her like an Angel, care for her like an Egg and handle her like a girl friend. For once pretend you are just her boyfriend, do those things you used to do to her when you were courting. She is still your girl no matter her age.
38. Remain a lover boy
Yes, go ahead be a lover boy, be toaster, be all over her, be her Prince Charming, she has not outgrown that. Get her out of her self and spoil her with love.
39. Get her regular gifts
Regular gift is a must, it can be as little as chocolate, barbecue, suya, apple,
It can be as big as wrist watches, shoes, bags, hats, cloths and car. Go ahead give her regular gifts, she is a gift in your life.
40. Massage her
Give her a good body massage, I’ve not met a woman who doesn’t like to be massaged. You don’t need to be a professional to do this, go ahead do it.
41. Scratch her back
Funny? Not really funny to a woman, she want regular back scratching especially in the place under the bra, do it regularly, she needs it, you don’t need to pay for it, so do it.
42. Appreciate her generously
Appreciate this gem that lives in your house regularly. For good food, for breast feeding your children, for cleaning the house, for caring for you and your children. Nothing should be taking for granted, appreciate her, even for good performance in the bedroom giving you a tantalizing sex, say thank you.
43. Maker her enjoy sex
Give her a good night out in the bedroom always. Be very skillful in the bedroom, let her enjoy sex. Give it to her and make her to call for more. That is what makes a good husband.
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Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale
43 WAYS TO BECOME THE BEST HUSBAND EVER
43 WAYS TO BECOME THE BEST HUSBAND EVER
43 WAYS TO BECOME THE BEST HUSBAND EVER
43 WAYS TO BECOME THE BEST HUSBAND EVER
43 WAYS TO BECOME THE BEST HUSBAND EVER
43 WAYS TO BECOME THE BEST HUSBAND EVER
