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5 Area Every Woman Must Focus To Be Outstanding in 2018

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5 Area Every woman Must Focus To Be Outstanding in 2018

5 Area Every woman Must Focus To Be Outstanding in 2018

-By Bisi Adewale

The life of a woman involve so many things, but I will focus on five

important areas here that a woman must handle wisely if she must enjoy

and be outstanding in 2018, they are:

 

  1. WHO SHE SERVE

your relationship with God as a woman is very important to the extent that it

determines how your life will be now and how it will be in the future

“Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the

Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let

her own works praise her in the gates” (Proverbs 31:30, 31)

 What to do

– Surrender your totality to God. Stop struggling your life with God,

follow the path of righteousness.

– Serve God and don’t be useless in His house, get busy for the Lord, be a

worker in the house of God, be a good example for your children.

– Be a covenant practitioner: preach the gospel, be a tithe payer, give

generously.

– Be prayerful, be a student of the Bible, fast often and live holy life.

  1. WHO SHE IS

Your relationship with yourself is also important, if you don’t love your

Person, you can never maximize your life.

What to do

 Change what you say about yourself.

 Change your belief about yourself

 Develop a better character (character like humility, diligence, meekness,

etc)

 Deal with worry, fear, anxiety, depression, anger, etc.

 Take time to rest and relax, live a balanced life.

 Let there be work-life balance.

 Live a life of praise of God, don’t complain.

 Dress better to give glory to God. “She maketh herself coverings of

tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple”. (Proverbs 31:22).

– Avoid extreme positive dressing such as dirtiness, color riot,

unfashionable dresses, etc.

– Avoid negative dressing: see-through dresses, cloth that exposes

cleavage, tight dresses that exposes curves and part that are called

private, cloths that allows your under wears and buttocks to be seen at the

back.

  1. HOW SHE RAISED HER CHILDREN

The way a woman raised her children will also be path of how her life will

be in the future

Three ways people raise children

 Child breeding: This is the way animals raise their own children without

provision, planning and care. All they do is breeding, that is what some

parent do too.

 Child rearing: This is the way people raised animals they want to kill, eat

or sell. There will be provision, but no training, focus, plan, prayer.

That is the same way some women are raising their own children, they pay

school fees but they have no time to train their children; no vision, no

teaching, no prayer; it is about rearing.

Child training: This is the biblical injunction to raise Godly children

“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will

not depart from it”. (Proverbs 22:6). This involve- teaching, leading,

mentoring, loving, praying, commanding, caring, providing until Christ is

formed in the child. This is the way to raise your children, the question is,

are you a breeder, rearer or trainer? Breeder and rearer will regret; only

trainer will be very happy tomorrow. Be a trainer. (Proverbs 22:6)

Also read:

12 Urgent things you must know about parenting

 

  1. WHAT SHE DOES

The career, profession or vocation of a woman is very important to her life

and destiny.

“She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff”.

(Proverbs 31:19)

What to Do

  1. Have a Purpose: know what you are born to do and be
  2. Develop yourself for your purpose
  3. Pursue your purpose. Never be a liability.
  4. Be diligent, don't ever be lazy.
  5. Pursue excellence in your purpose

 

  1. WHO SHE MARRIED

Apart from relationship with God, no other person can so affect the life of a

woman like the person she married. Marriage can make or mar the life of a

woman that is why every woman should take her marriage very serious.

What to do:

1.Choose your marriage partner carefully.

  1. Deal with anti- marriage characters.
  2. Be excellent domestically: be a great cook and home maker. (Proverb

12:4)

  1. Develop deep knowledge about marriage and family life to handle in-

laws, children, money.

“Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it

down with her hands”. (Proverbs 14:1)

  1. Learn what it takes to handle a man you married as a friend, lover,

husband, leader, father, brother and joint heirs with Christ.

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