5 attitudes that are likely to harm all of your relationships
Marital, family, social and professional relationship. We live with people, we talk to people and we relate to them at all times. Our personality helps us a lot in our relationships, but it can also hurt us. Attitudes of gentleness, meekness, understanding, and understanding, for example, help us a lot, do not they?
But there are also attitudes that, instead of helping, only distract. The important thing is that we can have that vision and policing, otherwise these five attitudes that I will speak of will undermine all relationships.
1. Egoism
A selfish person is one who cares only for his own interests. It will only do good to someone if it benefits you in any way. She cares more about the rational side and leaves the emotional outside.
Maybe she seems to be strong because after all, she seems to love herself so much! She knows how to say “no,” and no one has the courage to ask her anything because she knows she will not get help.
Unfortunately, selfishness exists. Many times in our lives we end up being selfish, after all, we all have our imperfections. In a relationship, selfish feelings are excused, love of neighbor, charity, kindness, and altruism are necessary.
2. Pride
Pride makes you believe that you are always right, that only your way is good, and makes you think that you did not make mistakes and that it is not your duty to ask for forgiveness.
I believe that I do not need to talk about this much, for it is clear that for a relationship to succeed, it is necessary for them to understand each other, to humble themselves to ask for forgiveness by making mistakes, and to know how to give in.
3. Dishonesty
Honesty is synonymous with truth. A dishonest person tells lies, can treat someone with falsehood, and can even create intrigues based on things that are not real. This behavior undoubtedly disrupts any relationship. Where there is dishonesty, there is no trust, and trust is fundamental in any relationship.
4. Jealousy
Many people believe that jealousy is synonymous with love, and that statement is completely incorrect. To be jealous is to be afraid, to have insecurity, to think that that person is your property, that it is not free, that it is like a bird that has full conditions to fly, but you bind it, do not want to lose it, and it makes him eat and drink only when you feed him, and he does not sing as he did before. This does not seem to be love, it does not even come close to the feeling of love.
Jealousy may be a characteristic of your personality, but you need to recognize that it is not good, that it does not bring you happiness and it only disrupts any kind of relationship you have, be it loving, family, social or professional. If you fail to recognize this, you will not be able to police yourself and, unfortunately, this behavior will damage your relationships.
5. Rancor
This feeling, the rancor, does not let us forget bad memories, disappointments, and all those things that hurt us. It’s like a wound that does not heal, we’ll take it out and it will bleed again. When we think that she is healing, something happens that pokes her and there we go again to remember past things.
A grudge does not only harm our soul, but also our body and our health, and all those around us.
I like to always repeat the fact that we are all human beings, and how imperfect we are, we make mistakes, and this will happen many times. But the choice to hurt yourself or not, to hold a grudge or not, to forgive or not, is solely and exclusively ours. It takes strength and a lot of humility.
Having a grudge helps nothing in a relationship. Solve your sorrows, talk to those who hurt you, express your feelings, for that person may not even know about your hurt. Live in peace, let the wound heal.
Certainly, these five attitudes and many others will come into our lives for many times, but the choice is yours. Will I recognize that this is not right and it hurts me and other people? Will I try and change, or will I let these things hurt my relationships?
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