5 FUNNY THINGS PEOPLE SAY WHEN THEY FIGHT IN MARRIAGE
Bisi Adewale
Most divorced people, people facing divorce or People fighting in marriage are always in denial of the true cause of the state of their Marriages. They are fond of exaggeration, half-truth or absolute lies about their spouses and their Marriages. What they say sometimes can be very funny, Here, I want to show you lies people tell when their Marriage hits the stormy water:
1) DEVIL DID IT: I have heard this several times to the extent that I always expect people to say it when they come to me for a counseling session. The truth is, it is not Devil that hurts your Marriage but your attitude, manners, habits, ignorance, actions and reactions.
If Devil is the one that destroyed that Marriage, he must have used you as a contractor.
2) “THAT MARRIAGE WAS A MISTAKE”
Nobody will ever admit they made mistake in Marriage, rather they blame the Marriage for been a mistake. The truth is, no Marriage is a mistake but people in the Marriage may be making serious mistakes.
3) “MY SPOUSE IS A DEVIL”: I’ve heard this times without number. Is it not amazing, how your DARLING before the wedding can suddenly become a DEVIL a few months after. The truth is Devil don’t get married it is only Humans who do, so stop thinking your spouse is a devil, see where you’ve been wrong and turn things around, it takes two to tango.
4) “OUR LOVE DIED”: The question is, who killed the love? How did it die, what did you do when it was dying?. The truth is if love dies at all in your Marriage, it did not commit suicide, it was Murdered by the two people involved in the Marriage
Who Murdered love? Both of you did, you murdered love with your inaction, carelessness, ignorance, actions and attitudes.
5) IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES: Another funny thing people say is Irreconcilable differences, they do make it look as if it’s impossible to agree, you will hear,”we can’t just agree” “We can’t make it work” “Our personalities are totally different, they can’t connect”.
The truth is everybody in Marriage has irreconcilable differences but they are mature enough to find the “point of accord” despite their differences. It is true that every couple have different personalities, but wisdom they posses, do make them turn their different colors to rainbow not “color riot”
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