5 MAGIC WORDS YOU NEED FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE
ADENIKE AKINDUDE
The way we relate with people can show the kind of person we are. Relating with people can be in different ways, like the way we carry ourselves, our attitude, charisma and most especially what we say. Most marriages experiencing one challenge or the other presently started with what either of them said at a point in time. Domestic violence can also be traced to the kinds of words that are spoken. 5 MAGIC WORDS YOU NEED FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE
For you not to hurt your partner through your words there are five important words you need to get used to saying almost every day in your Marriage. 5 MAGIC WORDS YOU NEED FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE
1. I LOVE YOU
Most times couples forget the use of this three combined words when they get married even though they say it before marriage. It is important for every couple not to abandon these important words as it serves as a reminder of the deep feeling that exists between them. 5 MAGIC WORDS YOU NEED FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE
2. PLEASE
When you use the word please it shows you are making a request and not ordering the other person around. You need to use this word whenever you need a favor from your partner when you do this it shows you regard that person as your partner and not your messenger or servant.
3. I’M SORRY
This is a very powerful word that you must use immediately you realize you just omitted something or did something wrong. I’m sorry is used instantly when a wrong is done. For example, you forgot to do something you were supposed to have done, you must quickly use the word I’m sorry. It shows that you didn’t do it intentionally and it can ease anger fast.
4. FORGIVE ME
This word seem similar to I’m sorry but they are not the same. You use forgive me when you have committed a wrong, this does not include forgetting to do something or not. If you did something that hurt your partner you need to make use of this word, don’t delay. It shows you are remorseful for what you did.
5. THANK YOU
When you are used to someone doing a particular thing for you regularly you forget to use the word thank you. When you say thank you, it shows appreciation and makes the other person want to do more. Appreciate the little moment you spend with your spouse by your side, try not to take it for granted.
When you make use of these words, you begin to experience its magical effect almost immediately. It is important for you to use the five magical words regularly for a wonderful marriage.
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