5 messages you are transmitting while not using your wedding ring
Even if unintentionally, these are the messages you will convey to the people around you, including your spouse and children:
1. That you do not want anyone to know that you are married
It is a natural part of the human being to draw conclusions based on what is seen. If we see a person, who we know to be married, without a wedding ring, the first thing that comes to mind is, “Does not he want someone to know he’s married?”
In the head of your spouse may arise the same doubt “Has he become interested in someone else and does not want her to know that she is married to me?”
2. That you are not happy in marriage
People may think you do not wear a wedding ring because your marriage is in crisis or you and your spouse do not have a stable relationship.
3. That you do not care what your spouse thinks and feels
Married people who love their spouse at least most of them make a point of using a covenant and expect their spouses to do the same, and do so of their own volition, not because they are being charged.
A person who knows you may think that you ignore your spouse’s feelings. And your spouse may feel the same. This can generate insecurity and hurt.
4. That you do not take the promises and covenants you made in marriage seriously
The alliance is not just a prop but an important symbol of our promises of loyalty, mutual respect, support under any circumstances. Removing this important symbol can convey, especially to your spouse, the message that you do not care more about promises made. He does not value his marriage any more than he did before.
5. That you are available for new relationships
If someone who does not know you comes with no alliance, you will think that you are single or at most you are dating. This gives openness to flirting, sung, invitations to leave. It’s the biggest “green light” you could give to someone.
Many people do not use an alliance because of security (many have even lost theirs in robberies), but nothing prevents them from buying other very cheap, same jewelry, to use in day to day. The same applies to those who have grown fat and their alliances are no longer serving. Just want, and you can find a way.
Even if you do not care what other people think, try at least calling what your spouse feels. Using the wedding ring is not exactly “wanting to prove anything to the world”. It is, in fact, a protection for your marriage.
It is a way for you to tell your spouse that you love him, that you are proud to be married to him, that you take the promises you made at the altar seriously and that you want everyone to know that you are not available for new relationships.
Article by Akinbode Toluleke check up Twitter on taakinbode
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