Many women dream of finding that perfect man — the hard part is turning those dreams into reality. There is no way to guarantee that you will find him, but there are steps that you can take to greatly improve your chances.
#1 Understand yourself: Know your real needs and distinguish them from other people’s expectations. Be honest with yourself about your faults, you need to meet someone who will find your faults minor and forgivable but praise your strengths.
#2 Don’t expect perfection: If you find it, all the better. But, admit it; you’re not perfect. No one is. If you’re looking for a 100% perfect man, you will never find him. So be quick to forgive those little mistakes or annoying habits that don’t matter, and hopefully, he will overlook your imperfections too.
#3 Be happy being alone: If you are ready to find the man of your dreams, then you have to be content with your own company before you begin your search. Forget the myth of finding the man who completes you or makes you whole; you should already feel like a fulfilled, well-rounded being, whose life will be improved by the presence of the right man, but not completed.
#4 Love yourself: This is another important point. If you want to be able to find the man of your dreams, you have to love who you are. This doesn’t mean that you have to completely love every part of yourself, but that you are confident in who you are and happy with what you have to offer.
#5 learn from other people’s experience: Yes, ladies, you’ll need to learn from other people’s experience to serve as a guide in making important relationship decisions.
It is advisable to have relationship mentors that you will be accountable to and that will guide you when you are faced with making important decisions.
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