5 QUALITIES EVERY WIFE SEEK IN HER HUSBAND
Bisi Adewale
There are five qualities every wife seek in her husband, we will try to examine them here, using Joseph in the Bible as our character guide. They are:
1)IMAGINATION
A great husband should be a great thinker, a dreamer, a man of vision and future.
That is the dream husband of every woman. Joseph was a dreamer. It caused him some problems, but he was able to see what others couldn’t see. That is what a good husband must be, he must see far, he must think fast, he must be ahead and make provision for the future for his family.
2) INTEGRITY
A great husband should be a man of integrity that is the dream of every wife. You are expected to be a man of Character
Joseph was a man of integrity, When tempted by Potiphar’s wife He resisted temptation. A husband must continually seek what is right, just and good. Your wife and Children are watching you, you must not disappoint them, a husband must be above reproach.
3) INVESTMENT
A great husband invests in people and builds up tomorrow. Wives are looking for men who are not just thinking of today but are investing in tomorrow, building legacy that will last
Joseph helped the men in prison, he helped the Pharaoh and he even helped his brothers who had hurt him most. Joseph obviously believed the principle that helping others helps yourself. The heart of a leader must be willing to sacrifice his or her own agenda for the agenda of others.
4) INTENTIONALITY
Every wife is looking for husband that lives intentionally, living with a purpose, planning for the future, living for tomorrow.
Joseph lived intentionally, he knew he had a future and he didn’t want anything to destroy it, He was diligent during the famine and during the days of prison. Joseph was confident God had a plan for his life, so he refused to be distracted by things of lesser value, but lived intentionally hoping of the best.
When man lived intentionally, he will not join himself with wrong people or run after girls that destroy Men and home.
5) INNOVATION
Every wife dream of an innovative husband like Joseph who devised an ingenious plan to save the nations from desolation. Using godly wisdom.
Every husband should be innovative and creative in solving family problems, women feel at ease when they know their husbands will always come out with a solution to their problems not fidgeting like baby when problems comes.
