5 Things You Must Not Do When Proposing to a Lady
-by Oba Samuel
Proposing to a lady is not as easy as many thinks, It has lots of technicalities. There are things you must not do during proposal which is not known to many men, that is, they may get a ‘No’ for an answer when they expect a ‘Yes’. Read further to discover what you must not do during a proposal.5 Things You Must Not Do When Proposing to a Lady
- Don’t be lily-livered:
Some men often find it difficult to propose to ladies even when there are indications that the lady is interested in them, they allow fear to overwhelm them to the point of being jittery in the presence of the lady they’re trying to woo. When you are fearful, the girl will see you as an immature guy and will laugh at you. Self- confidence is key when wooing a lady. 5 Things You Must Not Do When Proposing to a Lady
- Don’t place a hand on her shoulder:
While proposing to a lady, never make the mistake of placing your hand on her shoulder, this will make her feel that you are taking her for a whore or a street girl and she will also see you as a flirt and a play boy which will make her reject your proposal.
- Don’t ignore your calls:
In the middle of your love talk, your phone may be ringing several times while you keep ignoring the calls. Such a case like this will make her think that you are a cheater and a double dater. She will think it’s one of your girls calling you and you don’t want her to know that you are a ladies guy. During proposal, pick your call to show the lady that you don’t have a skeleton in your cupboard.
- Don’t give her a gift immediately:
As soon as you propose to a lady, never make the mistake of giving her a gift. Such gesture will make her think that you are trying to buy her over with your gifts. If she has not given her consent, please, keep your gift to yourself else, it will spoil your game.
- Don’t Introduce Her As…:
Should any of your friends or siblings see you while you are proposing to her; don’t make the mistake of introducing her as your babe or lover because she may get offended. It’s better not to introduce her or just call her your friend.
