5 Ways To Forget Someone Who Is Not Interested In You
Forgetting something we want becomes difficult precisely because of the desire for forgetfulness. The more we want to forget, the more we remember. So what can be done? The following tips will help.
1. Decide to forget
When we actually decide, any lapse of memory will be rejected and so gradually the person is forgotten. It is important to be determined to avoid negative thoughts and self-pity. This takes some time. The human mind loves preaching pieces. It is important to be prepared to reject any image or remembrance.
2. Change the airs
Can not you move from home, city, country? Change the places you go to, change the routine, avoid places that remind you of something related to the person you need to forget. Throw away memorable objects, attend a new gym, find a new hobby that you really enjoy. Anyway, everything that occupies the mind and requires certain effort having no relation whatsoever to the person that should be forgotten is welcome.
3. Love each other
Enjoy and take care of yourself, spend with yourself, buy that dreamlike object, change the look as you would have liked for some time, but did not have the courage, enjoy time with yourself, do things that make you happy. Increasing self-esteem in the first phase is key and should continue in a simple way later, remembering its importance and value.
4. Avoid isolation
The will will be to enjoy solitude and immerse yourself in negative thoughts. These feelings will only remind you more strongly of the person you want to forget. To be occupied and to be surrounded by dear friends is much safer.
5. Live the present. Build Your Future
The famous phrase “Who lives of the past is museum” falls very well here. Learning from the past and not repeating mistakes, enjoying the present and working for an interesting future will allow forgetting to be accelerated. Study, travel, learn a new language, do something today that can benefit you in the near future.
The process of forgetting is slow and needs perseverance. Relapses will happen and can be overcome. With time everything will be remote and so the gift will be much more enjoyable. Patience and courage will go together in this process.