5 Ways Wives Kills Their Marriage
The marriage is flourishing and happy, with a lot of fun fare attached to it. But all of a sudden, you begin to chock the marriage with 5 of the following things.
1. Living out of your husbands means.
He has always provided for you to the best of his ability, but now, you want something more. You envy the woman next door because she possesses some few things that you don’t have. Desire to stay within your boundary and then make sure you show a grateful spirit towards anything he gives or sends to you.
Yes, you may not have enough to buy that Kate Spade bag you have had your eyes on for months, but your husband will love and appreciate the fact that you honor him and are grateful for what he provides.
2. Constant Nagging
When you constantly complain about something, or you are having your complains about negative things, then you are destroying the marriage. Your husbands returns from work, so happy that he is home, and you greet him with negative and angry thought that’s crossed your mind throughout the day.
Negativity is draining. Men like to fix things, and constantly being hounded with complaints makes it difficult for him to help solve your pains.
3. Put your husband first
When your husband comes in first, then you will see that your marriage will be happy. All other things comes in secondary and this becomes a key to a happy family life.
So many couples get divorced these days, because they neglect to care and love one another and put each other first.
4. Withholding physical affection
Men crave and need physical affection with their wives. When you constantly decline intimacy, it wears on them.
We are not saying that he should have it to much, but when appropriate suffices. He will always remember the moments you shared some physical contacts together.
5. Love Language
The love language that applies to MR A, does not apply to MR B. They both differ. So, know which love language that applies to each one of them, and then know which to use and not to use.
Knowing the love language will mean a lot to him.
Well, this traits are done by some intentionally, while to others unintentionally. Just make sure that you dont destroy the marriage, but build it up.