5 Ways You Are Unfaithful To Him Unknowingly
You love your spouse so much that it is not in your agenda to lie or cheat up on him. You even told him never will you allow such to happen. But unfortunately, you have started mixing it up again. You are unknowingly doing that. What are you doing?
When you flirt, you may not know that it is quite harmful for you. It may just be a simple play at the office, or a harmless fun with your fellow co-worker. But what is flirting, and how dangerous can that be?
“It usually involves speaking and behaving in a way that suggests a mildly greater intimacy than the actual relationship between the parties would justify, though within the rules of social etiquette, which generally disapproves of a direct expression of sexual interest. This may be accomplished by communicating a sense of playfulness or irony… Body language can include flicking the hair, eye contact, brief touching, etc.”
So, what then can we do to be faithful? Avoid flirting and doing a lot of fun playing with someone of the opposite sex.
2. Confiding in someone who is not your spouse
You can put yourself in a lot of trouble by beginning to explain to someone of the opposite sex all your troubles and pains. Your best shoulder to cry is no one else than your spouse.
Not everyone can stay without capitalizing on the essence of trust and confidentiality. If you cant find your spouse, then a relative, or therapist will do the magic.
3. Spending time alone with another
A lady comes up from the blues and begins to enjoy your conversation. She says that she definitely enjoys your companionship, and she wants more. You or the other person may say, “Hey, we’re both adults. Nothing’s going to happen.” Well, things do happen. It’s not appropriate. Go home and spend that time with your spouse.
4. Chatting with someone of the opposite sex
When you begin to enjoy the company of someone of the opposite sex, then it can be very dangerous. You chat all day and night till the next day pretending that all is fine. You are putting your marriage in Jeopardy.
It could be considered as mere innocent talk, but when it gets to comes don to reality, then it cause a heartbreak or family disunity.
5. Dressing to attract
When you are dressing to attract, who are you attracting? Someone of the opposite sex or someone that you love? The intentions should be clear and essential. When this is done, then you will look sexy for your partner and not another random person.
When you begin flirting, then the love attention and companionship will reduce. So be careful about how you go about it and not become unfaithful to your spouse.