6 Reasons Why A Man Becomes A Bad Husband
Women’s complaints about their husbands are almost always the same: they do not listen, they do not help, they do not understand them. Sometimes they have real reasons for their complaints, and if you are interested in continuing to be a good husband like you have Been so far, do not make these six mistakes (or if you are already committing them, stop right now) and so the relationship will always be on the right track.
1. Pretending to be deaf
“Do not listen” is the number one complaint of wives and women in general worldwide. It is true that women talk a lot, it is an innate characteristic, but it is also true that some men do not pay much attention to their wives when they are talking.
Women like to be heard, and that’s why they take refuge in their friends or women in their family. Join the conversation even if you do not have a solution to suggest, for it is very important and will be very good for you, because it will solidify your relationship with your wife.
2. Do not call the chores
Even if you work all day long outside the house and she is home with the children, it does not give you the right to leave the towel thrown, the breakfast glass on the table or the jar you just took from the refrigerator in the table.
You can also help a few times during the week by accompanying your children by brushing their teeth and putting them to bed. Do not forget that little gestures make a difference.
Your wife, regardless of whether working outside or inside the home, deserves your respect and consideration. Work shoulder to shoulder with her to keep your family on track.
Do not leave her alone with the chores of the home, show interest in things that also concern her and you will see how she will surprise her and she will be happy and satisfied.
3. Lost Chivalry
Most women like gay men. If you have conquered her with your gentleman’s skills there is no reason to lose them over the years. Continue to nourish the flame with praise, special care, treating it well and being, above all, very affectionate with it.
A hug and a “I love you” at the end of the day is often the only remedy a woman needs to feel better and to ease her tiredness from a long day.
4. You humiliate her
When a man humiliates a woman is showing her weaker side. On the economic side, for example, if you earn more than her or if she does not work, do not tell her “You do not understand, because you do not put money at home”.
This is an act of evil with the woman with whom you decided to share your life. Of course she understands, and whatever role they have, they both play their part in marriage and both parts are important.
5. Does not take care of children
Being a good husband includes, for many women, being a good father. It’s not just about playing with the kids a little when they get home from work. It’s about getting involved in creation.
Know what clothes they wear to sleep, what their favorite food is, what games they prefer, etc. Many women complain that their husbands easily lose patience and do not want to take much of the “hard” part of parenting. Take control, come on, you can do it.
6. You do not like it
Your wife would love to get her favorite chocolate from time to time, or a small gift that indicates that you were thinking about her. It is not the material, but the gesture that implies.
Pleasing your spouse in intimacy is also a sign of a good husband. Listen to your body and release your passion by listening to your desires as well.
Being a good husband is being a good person. Marriage is no easy task and involves giving, pulling and dropping, in order to keep the relationship healthy even over the years.
Do not forget that you have chosen her as the woman of your life, honor her and maintain constant communication so that you can overcome misunderstandings.
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