6 Reasons Why You Should Help Your Wife
She is a mother of your children, then she has the home to take care off, she also has the added responsibility of running a store. Then you that she is already a machine. What can you do, or when should you help her out? Some 6 reasons may change your perspective.
1. Help Her Now
When you notice that the work load is too much for her to do, then you should be able to do something little for her. Just make sure that she is able to get relieved from all the stress that she is passing through. Measure her stress and get some relieved. Put yourself in her shoes and then you will readily agree that she is going through a lot.
2. Recognize what she does.
You may claim to work harder than your wife, but have you forgotten what she does at home? Well, the kids come home with several home works and she has to do them with the notion that she is also cooking the meal the family will eat from. That may not be enough for her as the kids come again with some few disagreement that she has to settle. By the time you return home and realize that the home is quite dirty, then there will be a problem. Recognizing that in mind, then she must clean the home and also make sure that the environment is safe.
A whole lot of work for her. You may wish to relieve her and commend her for what she is doing.
3. Let her be
There are times that all she really needs is just a little time to herself. When you realize this, just give her that time to heal over the several things she must have done in the past. Make sure you create a free time for her to meditate and get over the worries of her mind.
4. Physical touch
When you are with her, make sure that you reassure her you love her and appreciate her effort to keep the home intact. Make sure that you your hands round her arm or waist and then look her in the ye saying “Thank You”. Those expressions will really go a long way in healing her.
5. Create a fun environment for her.
When you are with her and you notice that is breaking down, make sure you create some fun enabling environment for her. This will help her to know that you notice her hard work. This can reset her to a default mode back again.
6. Go on Vacations
When you notice that she is a bit worried or anxious, then it may be that time you need to go for vacation. This vacation will do a lot of things for her. If possible, don’t go with the kids, and if you will go with them, then you must make a special provision for her as you wish to give her a treat.