1. Take no notice of yourself
Many ladies tend to feel insecure when it comes to the body. The idea of not having an “ideal body” may even lead some women to even try to pull a subject with their crushes.
It is not because you consider yourself a little overweight, or too thin, that it is valid to demean the incredible lady you are.
Leave thoughts like “he would never want something with someone like me” behind! Seek to develop your self-confidence, know that you can win over the person you want.
Do not let yourself be limited by features you do not like – come to love every bit of who you are, sure your crush will also. Accept compliments!
2. Body Language
This is a topic that works more like a “psychological trick.” There are numerous studies that prove the relationship between body language effectiveness for a loving attraction.
Try to use eye contact, sit in front of him, lean on his arm (physical contact in general), among other devices. There are those who say that even letting the wrists in the eye can help make your crush feel attracted to you – even though he does not even notice it at the time.
3. Do not pretend disinterest
We’ve talked about not chasing after, but make no mistake: Not staying up all the time does not mean showing disinterestedness.
It is a mistake to keep in mind that men like women who are not even “there” to them. In most cases, they simply tend to give up and walk away.
Avoid refusing invitations from your crush to dates, or ignore all your messages and calls. If you want something serious about it, why take the risk of making it lose interest?
A good tip is to give a “gelinho” from time to time, not being present and available at all times. However, remember to be there for one conversation or another, showing that you are interested in having something with it.
4. Demonstrate security
If you got here, you probably already have an idea of how important it is not to be afraid to show the crush who you really are.
Demonstrating security is basically putting the topics discussed above into practice, and feeling good about it.
It is much easier to relate to someone when you are not worrying so much about what they may think.
Do not let the fact that you have not dressed the day interfere with your confidence for good times with your crush.
It’s not because your hair is not on the best days, that you need to avoid seeing your beloved. It is crucial to know how to laugh at yourself. A self-confident girl is extremely attractive in the eyes of anyone, demonstrating will only leave the crush crazy for you more and more.
5. Seek common interests
Imagine that amazing to discover that besides being beautiful and interesting, your crush is also cracked by your favorite singer.
Try to talk to him and discover tastes that you may have in common. Finding something you both enjoy is a great way to get closer to the bonds, and who knows, make the two of you two even closer.
Aside from having plenty to talk about, you will become, to him, a girl with whom you will want to hang out together more and more. Talk about music, movies, hobbies, favorite meals.
The man will surely feel the need to know even more peculiarities about you – just as you will feel like knowing his.
Having interests in common is an excellent step for a possible relationship, after all, nothing better than knowing that the person you are related to likes the same things as you. Maybe it’s not an invitation to a show or to a movie that you both like!
6. Count on his friends
The friends of your crush are key to the relationship between you two can take a step forward. Suppose he hears from his friend’s great things about you, about how cool and fun you are.
This will spur more curiosity on his part, making him want to get closer to you. Remember to be discreet, do not try to ask a friend of his to try to get you two together – in case you are not very close.
It may happen that your friend tells the crush that “she asked me to ask if you like her,” and that’s not very good.
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