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7 Serious things to look for in a guy before you marry him ( Every lady must read this)

by Bisi Adewale
7 Serious things to look for in a guy before you marry him ( Every lady must read this)

7 Serious things to look for in a guy before you marry him ( Every lady must read this)

Don’t look for the wrong things in the life of a Guy and decide to marry him. Things like appearance, kind of car, job title, Money, Handsomeness, and position will not last long, but if you base your choice making on right values you will rejoice on the long run.
appearance, kind of car, job title, Money, Handsomeness, and position will not last long, but if you base your choice making on right values you will rejoice on the long run.
Below are things to watch-out for in a guy:
1) HIS FEAR OF GOD: This is very important, check whether the guy you want to marry has the fear of God in him. When a man does not fear God it will be difficult to fair well with him.
2) GODLY CHARACTER: A man without good Character may end up a wife beater, a cheat, a drunk, an addict, abuser etc, can you imagine your future with a man like that? Don’t ever marry a Man without manners and Godly values.
3) KINDNESS: Is he kind? Will he be kind? Does he show kindness to people? Is he kind to women in his life, how does he relate to women around him. All these are very important to predict what he will do in future.
4) GENEROSITY: Is he generous? Is he a giver, how does he handles money? When a man is tight fisted, he may end up an irresponsible man that will not take good care of his family, be careful
5) HUMILITY: Is he humble or full of himself? Can he easily apologize? Does he listen to advice? does he listen to you? is he a team player or a dictator? Be very careful with a man that is full of himself he will make life difficult for you.
6) FAITHFULNESS: Is he faithful? Is he keeping to you or play around town? You need to ascertain this before you make up your mind on him. If he is not faithful now, he may not be faithful when you marry him.
7 AUTHENTIC LOVE: Don’t marry a man for a ROMANTIC LOVE, that will be dangerous, it will last till honey moon. Go for him only if you are sure of his AUTHENTIC LOVE. An authentic love is not based on sex, kissing and fondling, it’s based on kindness, service, and sacrifice.

Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog:  www.bisiadewale.comWebsite:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale

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