7 THINGS YOU MUST NEVER DO TO YOUR HUSBAND WHEN YOU ARE PREGNANT Part 1 (NUMBER 2 AND 6 ARE VERY IMPORTANT)
-Yomi Adewale Read part 1
(8) DONT NEGLECT YOUR OUTLOOK
Some women throw away their fashion consciousness because of pregnancy, they will not be mindful of their outlook anymore, always remember that your husband is still looking and watching, he wants to see his stunning lady so never neglect your dressing, there are many maternity gowns, very stylish and suitable for you.
(9) DONT HIDE SEX OF THE BABY FROM HIM
Never say because the sex of the baby reveals by scan does not match the gender you wish and pray to birth, the bottom line is that your husband is the father of the child while you are the mother, he has right to that information regardless of what may be happening, never post phone such disclosure until the day of delivery
(10) DONT FAIL TO BE ROMANTIC
Romance is the fire of love that must keep burning in your marriage at every season, the fire must not go down, you must not quench it because of pregnancy. Some men have excuses of neglect by their wives as main reason for clubbing and womanising, though that does not exonerate them from being unfaithful to their wives, women should not relent in bedroom duty because of pregnancy
(11) NEVER FAIL TO BE CHEERFUL
Never fail to be cheerful at this period, it would help your mood and make you pleasant for your husband and people around to relate with. More so, it helps the liveliness of your baby, hostility and moodiness will impair your joy and cheerfulness
(12) DONT FAIL TO SHARE EXPECTED DATE OF DELIVERY (EDD) WITH HIM
The EDD will help your husband plan his trips and movements, especially if he is the type who travels a lot, if at all he wouldn’t be available he may have to make proper alternative plans, you need to keep him posted on this important information. However, remind him of the need to keep such information and not make it public
(13) DONT ALLOW YOUR LOVE FOR HIM TO DIE
For some women, the challenge of carrying the baby in her womb for months, is enough to kill love in her heart, pregnancy period is a phase in the journey of marriage, don’t allow the feeling to end your love life, work on yourself and make your husband knows better ways to express your love in a way you will much appreciate at this time.
(14) NEVER KEEP VITAL INFORMATION ABOUT THE PREGNANCY AWAY FROM HIM
Don’t keep vital information about the pregnancy, maybe there are medical challenges and you are bearing the burden alone, maybe there are some dreams you both need to cancel, maybe there are some reports from the clinic, any prophecy from anyone, you are told and you keep mute, it’s not right to keep it from your husband for the good of your family even for your own sanity, you need help and encouragement from him, if you want the trust between you to be stronger, manage the pregnancy period well, it should be a blessing not a trouble for you.
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