To make your marriage tick, you need to know the hidden strategies for it. If you know the strategies and use them wisely, marriage will be a great place to live in. These strategies are not what people talk about in their day-to-day activities. It’s hidden; but without them, you can’t really build a great home
- LOOK UP TO GOD
Husbands and wives are to look up to God for a great Marriage. God is the manufacturer of marriage. Only His wisdom can make it work. When parties in a marriage make God their principal partner, they sign themselves up for a lifetime of peace and joy. (Psalm 127:1)
- TAKE UP YOUR RESPONSIBILITY
To be responsible simply means you are performing your roles as it is supposed to be in a marriage. Irresponsibility is a key factor why marriages fail.
- SHOW UP AT HOME
Home cannot be sweet when you are never at home. Being homely is a big sign of maturity in marriage. Homeliness is a great course in the school of family development.
- TEAM UP WITH YOUR SPOUSE
You and your spouse must be teammates but not ‘fightmates’, not rivals. Team up with your spouse to make that marriage work, to make your family better financially and to raise Godly children.
- DON’T GIVE UP ON YOUR SPOUSE
Don’t give up on your spouse, no matter his or her weaknesses. Don’t give up, work together as a team. In a team, everybody has strengths and weaknesses; that is why it’s a team.
- GIVE UP WRONG ATTITUDES
You know wrong attitudes that hurt your spouse and make your marriage difficult. You’ve got to deal with them to make your marriage great.
- SIGN UP FOR ROMANCE
Marriage is meant to be romantic, not dry, drab and difficult. Make your marriage romantic. Talk together, play together, flirt with each other, crack jokes, laugh together and sleep together regularly. It’s not just a marriage, it’s a love affair, make romance happen.