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7 Ways to be the Pillar of your Husband’s Purpose

by Bisi Adewale
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7 Ways to be the Pillar of your Husband’s Purpose

Men are known to love their purpose and they are crazy about their jobs. If you must get the attention of your husband, then you must be a pillar of his purpose, you must be number one supporter of his career, encourage and motivate him to succeed.

Most women complain that their husbands are too much in love with their jobs and career. Out of anger, this kind of women does rise up to fight their men and his career. Just to get their attention, this can prove fatal because men find their fulfilment in their career, not in their relationship.

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1. Believe In Him.
No matter what his result is in his work, believe in him. Other men may be getting a better result than him; never compare him with them. Don’t base your love and belief in your husband on his result, no! What makes you a good friend and lover is your ability to believe in him when there is no result. Love him for who he is not for what he is doing or what he has.

2. Be His Friend.
John Mason said, “Your true friends are those who bring out the best in you”. Bring out the best in your husband, be a person of vision, be a friend of his mission.

3. Encourage Him in Failure.
The time your husband needs you most is the time of challenges and failure. Don’t forsake him when he is ‘naked’, stand by him, tell him ‘it is well’ assured him
you are still with him, assured him of your love and respect; despite his failure.

4. Celebrate Him In Success.
When he succeeds; celebrate him no matter how ‘small’ you think his success is. Praise him, celebrate him, and make the success look bigger than it is; you will make him happy and will be ready to do more.

5. Support Him Financially.
Stand by him financially, help him to stand on his feet,
appreciate the little he can do now, trust God for more.

6. Make The Home Conducive To Him.
Let him always be eager to come back home, don’t let
him feel at home at work, and at work at home. He
should feel at home in his house. Let him always look forward to going back home.

7. Have Passion For His Job.
Don’t just accept his job because of the bills it can pay,
develop a passion for it and love it. In as much as your
husband loves his job, you will do yourself a lot of favours if you love it with all your heart.

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