9 WAYS TO KNOW WHEN A GUY IS DECEIVING YOU
Most guys will come close to you, promise you Marriage, but most are not genuine. They are like Butterfly, they want to suck the nectar and go their ways. All they want is sex, to sleep with you and leave is all they plan to do. You are thinking of the Altar, they are thinking about the Bed. They know that one way to get a woman to bed is to promise them want they want, so they promise Marriage, get you focused on the Altar, sleep with you and stop picking your calls.
Many ladies are falling victim of the antics of
Many ladies are falling victim of the antics of this kind of wicked guys and many will still fall victim.
Here I will show you how to know a fake guy even if he promises you Marriage, you will know he is a fraud.
1) HE IS NOT TALKING ABOUT THE FUTURE
If you are going out with a guy who only tells you, you are beautiful but is not talking about a future with you, check it all he wants to do is to flatter you, sleep with you and flee.
2) HE IS NOT INTRODUCING YOU TO HIS FRIENDS
Anytime both of you are with his friends, he never introduce you to them, or he tells them you are just a friend, that is your level with him, find your way out of his life, he has his mind somewhere else, when a guy is crazy about you, he will be proud to introduce you to his friends.
3) HE IS NOT INTRODUCING YOU TO HIS PARENTS
Likewise, if he is not introducing you to his Parents, then you are not worthy of his life, he is just putting up with you for a while.
4) HE IS NOT READY TO MEET YOUR PASTOR
Your pastor invited him, but he refuses to go or says you are taking to fast or too eager for Marriage. He is smart not to commit himself before a clergy who may see beyond your inexperience eyes into his deceit and fraud.
5) HE IS NOT READY TO TAKE YOU TO HIS PARENTS
He kept on postponing taking you to his Parents, he does not want his Parents to get involved in the thing he knows will not see the light of the day.
6) HE USES “I” MORE THAN “US” WHEN YOU ARE TOGETHER
When he is with you, he uses “I” and avoid using “Us”. That is to tell you-you are not in his calculation at all.
7) HE LOOKS SO ROMANTIC BUT NOT AUTHENTIC
He is all over you, he kisses you, takes you out, spoils you a little but hardly talk deeply about the future, his Parents, His stories, His Past, His plan, future, wedding, marriage, Children etc. He is so romantic but not look authentic.
8) HE IS ALWAYS AFTER SEX
He doesn’t talk to you, no intellectual or spiritual discussions. He is full of romantic talk, he talks sexy and always wants to sleep with you. You are not part of his future life girl, you are just his sex toy, you will be thrown away soon.
9) HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOUR CAREER
He doesn’t care about your life or career. He encourages you to miss work or class just to be with him. He never for once plan your life with you beyond the bedroom. You are with a sex hunter girl, that is not a husband material.
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on firstname.lastname@example.org, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale