6 Greatest Mistakes Women Make in Relationships
As a relationship expert, I have come to realize that both complaints from both men and women about behaviors that create conflict and wear relationships. The fact is that many are quite common because they represent masculine and feminine tendencies. Knowing these different propensities can greatly facilitate the couple’s understanding.
1. “She does not value herself”
This is more common than you can imagine. Women who believe they are “good” do everything to please and tolerate the intolerable do not have the respect of the partner.
This complaint is almost always about close relatives and friends or even professional relationships, the husband feels that his wife is exploited.
2. “She gives me no value”
Recognition is fundamental for the human being, we all like to see our valued efforts. The fact is that if there are women who turn the frog into a prince with a kiss, there are also those who do the opposite with the regrets.
Women who live complaining about their husbands and never have a compliment to do, ultimately discourage them. Resentful, men prefer to walk away.
3. “She does a lot of drama”
Men, in general, work by logic, by reason. They simply do not know what to do in the face of exacerbated emotions, crying or drama. This really leaves them lost. So their fame of not liking to discuss the relationship is very true, they tire quickly of the drama, prefer not to argue, worse still is when they are violent.
4. “She’s Sticky”
This is one of the biggest complaints I usually hear. Men hate to give the satisfaction of what they do, to have to deal with endless questions of their routines suffocate them.
There is a tenuous difference between caring and controlling, they love to be cared for and they have horror to be controlled. And if control still adds jealousy, then the confusion is made and the relationship is already sick.
5. “She does not pay attention”
In an article on relationships, an expert said that he wants to know that she will make him feel like a man, even when the whole world is against him. If a woman gets this from the man, he feels he has all his attention supplied.
The man likes to feel useful and never in the background. Meeting this need is a challenge, especially if the couple have small children and or the woman works out.
6. “It draws conclusions early”
Some women are really good at running over people who are talking, they do not even let them complete the sentence, and they already draw their own conclusions.
Impossible to understand someone, or what she says, without listening with attention and empathy. Of course, this is very annoying to men who feel misunderstood and rejected. The difficulty of listening to another is one of the biggest problems in relationships.
Difficulties will always exist, which does not mean complication, quarrels, and misunderstandings. The way men and women deal with differences is that it establishes the health of the relationship.
The fact is that everything is possible and very pleasant when there is dialogue, friendship and lots of love.
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