Important Ways to Avoid Marital Failure—Pastor Bisi Adewale
Marriage failure is a network of failure. It affects every other area of a person’s life. When there is no peace in the marriage, it cannot be well with people. When there is no rest in marriage, it cannot be well with the couples.
Pastor Bisi Adewale ministering at Breakthrough for Singles and Married May edition
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The things good marriage will do:
*Progress, two are better than one. Couples can achieve good things and make progress together if their marriage is good.
*Good Parenting, you can raise your children well if your marriage is good. Parenting is difficult when there is disunity at home.
*Focus and removal of loneliness, you can make great plans and achieve success with your spouse when you are together with your spouse in a good marriage.
*Answered Prayers, good marriage brings down the presence of God and prayers is answered easily.
Instances when marriage is not a failure are:
-When there is no child. Children make family not marriage.
-When there is a misunderstanding. Misunderstanding means ‘Understanding that is missing’, you have to find it. Misunderstanding in marriage is normal, natural and is not new. Handle misunderstandings rightly, never hurt each other’s personality when there is a misunderstanding.
-When there is no money. In this situation, make plans, adjust your spending, also stand with each other.
-When you are totally different. Men and women are totally different from each other. There are 72 differences between a man and a woman.
The following makes marriage become a failure:
*Marriage built on lies and deceit
*Marriage done in haste
*When there is no solid foundation and adequate preparation
*Refusal to talk to your spouse or lack of forgiveness.
*When the heart of a person becomes hardened.
Ways to avoid Marital failure
- Lay solid foundation for your marriage, the foundation of prayers, patience, counsel and purity in courtship.
- Prepare adequately for your marriage, prepare to be a husband not a groom, prepare to be a wife, not a bride.
- There must be fellowship with God, you must have a couple’s altar and family altar. Let God reign in your home.
- Be a positive partner, think right, talk right, live right and act right.
- Cover your marriage in prayers.
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