WHAT CHELSEA FOOTBALL CLUB CAN TEACH YOU ABOUT MARRIAGE
-Oba Samuel
Chelsea Football Club of England may not be your favourite club in the football world but the fact that they won the premier league last season means that they did something right which we can learn from in order to build a better marriage.WHAT CHELSEA FOOTBALL CLUB CAN TEACH YOU ABOUT MARRIAGE
What are the lessons taught by Chelsea that is applicable to your marriage? They are:
- Change Your Formation:
Chelsea FC has taught me not to be rigid in marriage but to be flexible enough to change any strategy that is making marriage difficult and uninteresting.At the beginning of last season, Chelsea was struggling as they were beaten by almost all the Clubs in the premiership until Antonio Conte came and discard their 4-3-3 formation.
He introduced the team to a 3-4-3 formation which became a winning formula as they bounced back to winning ways which helped them win the premiership. Also in marriage, if you want your marriage to get better, change your formation of focusing on your career, job, ministry or Children alone without having time for your spouse. Such lifestyle will continue to bring distance between you and your spouse and make marriage difficult. Change your formation to – (1) God, (2) Spouse (3) Children-Job/Ministry. With this, your marriage can bounce back to love and romance.
- Offload:
Having won the league last season, Chelsea wants to ensure that they keep winning in the new season, they offloaded some players who were liabilities to the Club. WHAT CHELSEA FOOTBALL CLUB CAN TEACH YOU ABOUT MARRIAGE
Likewise in marriage, if you want your marriage to get better than what it used to be; you need to offload all bad characters in your life. Bad characters are liabilities that can shipwreck your marriage if you don’t delete them now. To save your marriage, offload anger, violence, malice, selfishness, solo life, fighting, food rejection, sexual denial, and infidelity.
- Scout for New Players:
Chelsea doesn’t fold their arms and allow unwanted situations to happen to them in the coming season; they went in search of new players that will help them build a formidable team.
You need to prepare yourself before challenges come in marriage by scouting for marriage booster information by attending marriage seminars, couples’ program, and marriage/parenting books. Improvement of knowledge will bring improvement into your marriage.Get marriage enrichment books on www.familybooter.com
- Get New Players:
Right now, Chelsea FC has signed three new players and still want to sign more in order to get a squad better than last season. So also in marriage, you will need new attitude and lifestyle to get a better result.
After the off-loading of your ‘bad players’, sign new players like Oneness, trust, attention, affection, kindness, joint prayers, family altar, fidelity, forgiveness, appreciation, and contentment. With these new players, your marriage will be stronger and better. WHAT CHELSEA FOOTBALL CLUB CAN TEACH YOU ABOUT MARRIAGE
- Go on Pre-season Training:
Nobody win by luck, winning is intentional. Chelsea has gone for pre season training playing with different teams in order to blend the old and new players together and to keep them physically fit.
A good marriage can get worse if you don’t improve on it.Pastor Bisi Adewale in his classic book-22 Pillars of Success, said ‘’the best way to maintain your success is to add to it’’ So, the best way to refresh your marriage, keep the romance alive is to create time to go for couples retreats and holiday. Come out of your busy schedule to revitalize your marriage.
