5 Essential Stages In Every Relationship

5 Essential Stages In Every Relationship
To decide who the person we are going to spend the rest of our lives with we embark on some relationships until we feel a different emotion, a unique feeling, that just thinking of a possible loss, we have to Sure that we really love.

But, emotion is not the only factor that will decide our future. Many of our decisions, including love, are determined by reason. And deciding for a reason, is often painful because, the heart only sees the good, but the reason alert to reality.

And to engage with others, we need to know each other better. The way of thinking, goals in life, complicity, the chemistry of passion, among other factors, are important elements in the phases of dating.

Of course, in love, there are no rules, so many of us are driven by emotion, leaving reason aside. But regardless of the decisions taken during the relationship, every couple will go through the phases of dating. Let us know the phases of dating.

1. Feeling/Attraction
This is the phase where it all begins. Everything is charming, everything is beautiful. Defects do not exist at this stage, or rather, entranced by the feeling, the couple can not see them. All moments together are intoxicating, complicity in this beginning is not lacking.

Who has never lived it? Probably of all the joys felt during our lifetime, this is one of the greatest. Joy that leaves us scattered and laughing for nothing. This phase is very lovely.

There are also other phases of dating that will be decisive for the couple to decide if they will be able to walk together.

2. Getting to know each other better
At this stage, we can say that all that enchantment will go through some ups and downs. After a while together it is normal for the couple to go on to demonstrate a little more of the personality, quality, and defects. What was not seen until then, is seen in a more rational way.

Now, a few things in the partner are already starting to bother. The charges also begin to be part of the dating, as well as the annoyances and disagreements that are part of every relationship.

And it is at this stage that the couple needs to have understanding, patience, knowing how to dialogue, after all, we are unique, we think and act differently from each other.

When the couple gets to know each other better, doubts and certainties begin to linger in their thoughts. This means that the next phase of the courtship is already near. Time to decide!

3. Time to make a decision
Already aware of the defects and qualities (at least enough to decide on the relationship) of your partners, it is time to review the days together, if there was understanding, care, whether the feeling is being matched, whether respect Always prevailed.

It is necessary to put everything in the balance from the beginning, the joys, and sorrows and analyze which of these weighed more. Aware of their deeds, their attitudes, the time has come to decide whether it’s worthwhile to stay together or put an end to dating.

4. Acceptance
If the courtship continues after the ups and downs it is because there is something good and strong: the feeling of love and it has overcome the problems of the day today. In this phase, the courtship is more consolidated, as the couple overcame the barriers, which, in addition to being overdue, some of them were also accepted.

The couple understood that to live well for two requires a great deal of understanding and complicity.

5. Certainty of the future/Proposal of engagement
When making the decision of the engagement, it means that they are more than certain that they want to be together for the rest of their lives and that they are also preparing to start a family.

In this phase of the courtship, the couple is already beginning to think about the preparations for the future marriage and they start to have more financial and family awareness. Familiar because in addition to managing the financial part of the house, later become parents of the family and the responsibility of raising and raising children is always worrying.

These five phases are part of every relationship, with them it is possible to know your partner better, observe behaviors so that it is possible to make an important decision: the person who will stand side by side with us.

Of course, these phases of dating will not guarantee the certainty of having made the best decision in life because of many things in the day to day influence relationships. But through them, it is possible to get as close as possible to a healthy and lasting relationship.