Dear Husband: 5 feelings You Should Not Express Your Wife
Sometimes in our lives we fail to express some of our feelings and we do not know very well the reason for such an attitude.
The fact is that this also happens in the relationships between husband and wife, and in marriages we usually fail to express feelings to avoid confrontations, to avoid being judged, labeled and often even despised.
However, when the relationship between the couple is also one of friendship and trust, expressing feelings contributes to the maturation and harmony of both. And it is not worth despising the feeling of the other, at this time it is better to sit, listen and use empathy.
If your husband is failing to express feelings, guilt can also be his own, perhaps his attitude the moment he tries to tell him something causes him to change his mind. Worth a thought on the subject!
Some feelings that they may fail to express are:
1. Anguish
Hardly anyone in the present day does not feel at some point in life distressed with so much bad things around us, but some husbands fail to express this feeling in fear that for their wives they are considered weak or less able to lead their family.
2. Fears
It is so natural to feel fear and there is no problem at all in feeling and admitting. It is not a weakness, it is a natural feeling of the human being, we all feel.
But for some men to admit the fear of anything is inadmissible, since society imposes on the male sex that man is not afraid of anything, it makes it very difficult for them to confess such a feeling.
3. Weaknesses
This is another feeling that belongs to everyone. We all have our weaknesses, some admit it is easy and natural, which is great because it becomes so much easier to deal with, but for other men (and women too) to admit their own weaknesses is very difficult.
For them, the image of a respected provider man, father of family, can be seriously compromised if they do.
4. Sensitivity
Formerly man never expressed his sensitivity never, never. Crying was something to be hidden in the bathroom. Luckily, nowadays things are no longer so, men are also sensitive and can demonstrate how much they are through a tear if that is the case.
They are thrilled to see their children grow up with romantic movies and this is natural, but for some of them, the fear of judgment may make them want to hide this feeling even from their own wife.
5. Affection
For some men it is still very difficult to express affection for their wives, however much they feel inside can not express through words or actions, exteriorize who they are not. Creation issues or belief that this will make them less men.
The more friends you are, the more you talk about everything, you will be able to show yourself fully to each other, without fail to express feelings. This is the true meaning of the word relationship.
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