HOW TO AVOID A DANGEROUS LOVER
“He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.”
Proverbs 13:20 KJV
“Keep company with the wise and you will become wise. If you make friends with stupid people, you will be ruined.”
Proverbs 13:20 GNB
— A dangerous lover is somebody whose relationship with you will truncate your destiny, jeopardize your future and pull down the four pillars of your life.
— A dangerous lover is anybody that claims to love you with all his or her heart but your relationship with him will not profit your relationship with God your health, your marriage and your purpose.
TO AVOID DANGEROUS LOVER DO THE FOLLOWING:
1) KNOW THE TRUE DEFINITION OF LOVE
“Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.”
Song of Solomon 8:7 KJV
— love can be romantic or authentic
— Love is not sex, sex is not love
— Love is not just a feeling
Love is an unconditional emotion from the heart mixed with kindness and compassion, which makes you be ready to serve the other party and make the sacrifice even when it is not convenient.
2) KNOW DANGEROUS LOVERS
1) Parasitic lover: Lazy, not ready to work but to live on you and suck YOUTO your bones.
2) Kill and go lover: Just interested in sex, sleep with you and dump you for another catch.
3) Bazaars lovers:
— ready to shower gifts on you.
— gives you what you need and do not need just to take you to bed, sleep with you dump you and hurt your heart deeply.
4) Wounded lover: Was just jilted by ex-lover.
— wounded and need healing,
— may not even trust opposite sex.
— want somebody besides them to prove a point and spite their ex.
— looking for opposite sex to deal with to revenge the way they where treated.
5) Nicodemus lover:
— Does not like to be seeing with you.
— Does not want you to tell your friends, parents, pastos,
6) Pendulum lover: Unpredictable, blows hot and cold in love. You can’t predict his or her mood, unreliable, inconsistent,
— Fights you for no reason
— Keep malice and is unforgiven
— cut off the relationship several times only to beg you to start again.
7) Master lover: Commander in Chief of family forces, dictator. He or she wants to be totally in charge of your life
8) Suffocating lover: Possessive, jealous.
— Will not allow you to talk to anybody
— Want to know where you are at every time
— Always accusing you on unfaithfulness.
3) MEET THE REAL LOVER AND STAY WITH HIM.
“Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands; thy walls are continually before me.”
Isaiah 49:16 KJV
— JESUS IS THE LOVER OF YOUR SOUL
— JESUS IS THE ONLY LOVER THAT CAN NOT DISAPPOINT
—- JESUS IS THE TRUE LOVE THAT CAN LEAD YOU TO GENUINE LOVER
Written by:
Bisi Adewale
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale
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