HOW TO GET YOUR NEEDS MET IN MARRIAGE
By Bisi Adewale
Don’t go into your marriage cups-in-hand looking for someone to fill them for you. Many people are like that they go into marriage with Big empty cups looking for their partners to fill their emptiness, they raise their Cups up at every opportunity demanding to be filled or refilled.
Some of the Cups are:
Sexual Cups etc
They go round the House with Victim mentality pleading to be filled, when they are not filled they make their Partners miserable. That is the major reason for Nagging, malice, bitterness, resentment, etc
Please note that your major assignment in that marriage is to get the Cups of your Spouse filled. You are:
When you perform your duty it will affect your spouse in all aspects of his or her life, the result will be a positive response and he or she will begin to fill your cup.
But if you never filed any Cup but start to throw tantrum like a Toddler because you want your need to be met, the result will be very poor and disheartening.