How To Know If Your Marriage Will Become Worse Or Average
-By Bisi Adewale
Knowing the state of your marriage will help you to do the needful thereby saving your marriage before it collapsed.
Let’s check the symptoms of worst and average marriages :
People in the worst marriages in the world say;
-Your feelings aren’t valid unless you feel the way I feel.
-Unless you make me happy, you can never enjoy life.
-I’m looking for a servant and I have found you; so go ahead and serve me
-Unless you behave like me you won’t have peace.
-I am here to be served. I am here to be worshiped. Be the servant, be the worshiper
-I will make your life miserable unless you do what I want.
-I don’t need to do what you want; I am the boss here.
-our needs do not bother me; all I need is for my needs to be met.
-I now have your back; bend down let me ride you.
-You even need to thank God that I married you.
IT IS A MARRIAGE OF THE FOLLOWING PEOPLE:
-It is a battlefield marriage in which hurting and wounding each other is the order of the day
thereby making life miserable for all involved.
An average marriage is a marriage that looks like a contract, it is performance based,
People in an average marriage says:
-If you do your duty, I will do my own. If you fail to do yours then I won’t bother to do
-If you serve me I will serve you. If you fight me I will fight you.
-Life is 50/50 whatever you give me, you will get in return. No more, No less.
-Let meet at the middle; You gain some I gain some.
-The man says: Give me sex and I will give you money.
-The wife says: Give me money and I will give you sex.