How To Make Your Spouse Grant Your Request At All Times
-Bisi Adewale
For your spouse to grant your requests at all times, what you need to do is to be polite.
To have a successful marriage, to build a better home and make your family a blissful one, everyone involved must pass the highway of politeness. You can’t be too nice or too polite to your mate. You can’t continue to “put down” your spouse and think your marriage will grow up.
To show that we are polite to our spouse, thereby enjoying the miracle of politeness in marriage, we must do the following:
- Speak politely to your spouse. The easiest way to be impolite is through our words. An impolite person uses harsh words, is unkind, full of abusive words, criticizes unjustly and finds it easy to condemn. The easiest way to be polite can still be through our words; when you speak politely, encourage, motivate, appreciate, praise, assure your spouse of your support and speak to uplift each other. Proverbs 15:23
- Be excited when you see your spouse.
- Honour him or her in the public and in secret.
- Never report your spouse to your friends and family members.
- Handle him or her politely in presence of your friends, children and family.
- Get angry politely. Even in the face of provocation, get angry without being impolite. You must not talk or act to destroy. When you are angry, express your anger in the most polite way.
- Give attention to your spouse. It is an act of being impolite when you ignore your spouse whether at home or in public. This attitude has the capacity to kill your spouse’s morale.
- V.I.P your spouse. Treat your spouse as a very important person. Give high regards to your mate, esteem him or her in your heart and in your actions.
