How To Propel Intimacy In Your Marriage
-Bisi Adewale
We need to do many things to enhance bonding and intimacy in our marriage. We must do things deliberately so as to avoid drifting at home which culminates in a difficult marriage. How to propel intimacy in marriage is a question bothering most married couples of this generation due to busy nature of their work. Regardless of your busy schedules,these points will teach you how to propel intimacy in your marriage. (Ecclesiastes 4:9)
Continue the journey. Know that closeness, intimacy and bonding in marriage is not a destination; it is a journey. Continue to do things that will encourage them in your marriage every day and every time. (Proverbs 13:16)
Be deliberate. You can’t nurture closeness accidentally. You must plan consciously to bond in your own marriage; you must be deliberate about it.
Be totally faithful. Yes, be faithful to each other. Don’t make the mistake of drifting into financial or sexual unfaithfulness; nothing destroys intimacy like them. Proverbs 12:15
Spend time together. Create time to be together by doing things that will glorify God in your marriage and things that will bring you closer and closer.
Forgive each other. Remove all bitterness, anger and resentment. Forgive your spouse; don’t give room to the devil.
Communicate effectively. For your communication to be effective, it must be DEEP, TRUTHFUL, FRANK, OPEN and CONTINOUS. Ephesians 4:29
Fellowship together. Go beyond relationship, fellowship and union; go for communion. Enter into each other’s life; no dark room, no secrecy.
Give. Give gifts, be a giver. Give, give and give. Everybody loves gifts, your spouse does. Give gifts, go ahead, give.
Be committed to each other. Connect, commit, get totally committed. Don’t relax about making your spouse number one priority after God. Galatians 6:9
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