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Nigerian Relationship Coach who got pregnant at 19 shares touching story

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Nigerian Relationship Coach who got pregnant at 19 shares touching story

Most times, getting up in life demands one taking a step with the right foot and in the event of one being caught up with some few lessons, it is good that the world gets to read it.

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Biola Makanjuola, a relationship coach, speaker and facilitator has done well for herself despite the challenges life has brought before her. But with a Positive Mental Attitude, she has emerged to teach others about her life struggle.

Makanjuola who is currently based in Canada has shared her story on Facebook in a bid to encourage others who might be struggling with the same plight she went through.

According to her story, Makanjuola said she got pregnant at an early age, got married thinking marriage would fix her but later divorced unexpectedly after suffering emotional abuse in a toxic relationship.

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Here is what she wrote:

Got pregnant at the age of 19, was zeroed out, condemned, alone and lost.

Became a mother & thought it best to make it official with my son’s dad at the age of 20

Got into unhealthy patterns in our relationship that led to emotional abuse and toxicity for the most part.

Finally got the courage to separate at the age of 23 after going through an abortion and Sexually Transmitted Disease.

This started my downward spiral into involving myself in multiple toxic relationships between the ages of 24 to 27

Confused, lost, dark, toxic relationships was my drug of choice. Felt unworthy, self-esteem dragging on the floor begging to be picked up, had little or no confidence, gave up my power to define who I was to other people because I just hated the woman I had become. I constantly questioned why I was so different and abnormal.

My body defined my worth. I clearly had nothing to offer. My single motherhood didn’t even help. They said I couldn’t do any better because of my baggage. I agreed with them and gave them my power. It was their word over mine.

Finally got tired of engaging in this toxic cycle and decided to embrace my difference. At this point, I was tired! I was sick! I was done! I found my light towards the end of 2016.

Found the love I had been seeking the whole time in myself. Things started clicking. I found my purpose. I realized I had a story to tell and was determined to share. I was worthy and enough the whole time and didn’t even know it. I finally found my voice and I promised myself to speak my truth.

I promised God that if he took me out of my misery and showed me the way, I will spend the rest of my life serving.

Currently serving and growing a tribe of women who believe in their power to create their stories and would do anything to make it happen.”

She finalizes her story calling on people for a 3-day event where she will share the action steps she took to move from “fear to fierce; from confusion to conviction; from bedmate to soulmate.

 

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