One thing your wife wants more than anything in marriage (Not what you think)
Bisi Adewale
Wives want many things in Marriage. They want love, care, provision, attention and provision.
But come to think of it, what is that thing your wife wants more than anything? Have you ever think of it? Can you imagine it? If you give this to any woman you win her love and affection forever, she becomes your darling and the carrier if your vision, in fact, she becomes the slave of your love, what could that be? I know you want to know!!
Can you try to guess it, it’s love, I hear you saying, its money, you are thinking, may be its attention you are still guessing, no you are wrong, then what it is?
If you ask any woman they may not even get it right, that is why relationship can be very complicated as people that want something do not even know they want it.
The question s what is number one thing your wife wants in Marriage, now let me tell you, I know you are now eager to know, its Security, yes, security, I mean protection, to make her feel secure and protected is the first need of every woman under the heaven
This is when husband communicates, act, react, relate with their wives everything about them must communicate security, this is true regardless of the subject or context of the conversation.
A woman wants to hear everything that conveys security and protection, if she hears something that conveys the opposite of this, she goes on high alert.
A woman that feels insecure becomes nervous, jealous, nags, suspicious and apprehensive. It can also affect her health.
Every woman do ask these questions:
Do I have a future with this man?
Does he really love me?
What will happen to my Children?
What is between this woman and my Husband?
Am I still beautiful for this man?
Is he seeing somebody out there?
Openness, care, love, attention, affection from a loving husband will remove all these questions.
WHAT MAKES A WOMAN INSECURE
When you love anybody more than her
When you are not open, she doesn’t know your heart and movement
When you talk harshly to her
When she lacks attention from her husband
When the family of her husband is closer to him than her.
A very secure wife is the best wife any man can marry, an insecure wife can be dangerous to herself and family.
HOW TO MAKE YOUR WIFE FEEL SECURED
TO make a woman feel secure is very easy,
It involves the following:
Tell her she is number one in your life and nobody can take her place
Protect her from your family and friends
Be totally open to her
Be faithful, do not sleep around
Be loving and caring.
Written by:
Bisi Adewale
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale
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